Forbidden to be? or not

December 15, 2012 3:58am CST
well friends? they are one of those people who makes me happy. I love being with them, everyday, anytime anywhere , but what if you have a friend who go beyond the limit. I will share my experience even this is confidential for, i want to receive some comments ,suggestions and as well as advice. I have this friend, he's a boy who treats me so special. Once a week, he always go to my school and fetch me up then we will go somewhere, where there are no people that knows us. He's sweet to me and so do I. Whenever we're together in his car, he used to tickle and hug me and holds my hand. I don't know if those things that we do is normal as a friend. Our closeness is so confidential, my friends and his friends don't know what kind of relationship we have now. It seems like we are hiding our friendship. He has a girlfriend, and she's a girl next door, she's rich ,beautiful kind believer of God. But this friend of mine didn't spare some time to tell something about her girlfriend. I don't know, I'm so confuse about us. It's like that he's my boyfriend but not. I enjoy being with his company but i know in myself that all the stuffs that we do is wrong. Everyone knows that he is respective in every aspect. He is one of the leaders in their church. Should I stop being around him and know our limitations or what?
2 responses
@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I think before you will be totally fall for him you should talk with him and ask what is your relationships. Of course, hugging and holding hands is not a malice as long as you know to yourselves that you are only friends and that is only normal. But I think, you've been reached the limitations already because you are seeing each other in private which the two friends are not doing that.
18 Dec 12
thanks for your response
@devonavis (1857)
• Greece
15 Dec 12
I think you two need to talk. It may appear awkward since you haven't been talking about your relationship but it's time to give it a try.
18 Dec 12
yeah you're right, sometimes i feel so awkward about us