Is it manly to see a man talked their inner sentiments with the help of alcohol?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (137254)
Philippines
December 15, 2012 5:20am CST
Some men are not that expressive, especially if they wanted to convey their sentiments into something. They tend to get drunk before they can open up to somebody. I am sure, most the people they are going to talk to will be irritated. If they are really a man, why do they need to drink heavily, since they can deal with it of not loading themselves up. What do you think?
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
The difference between a man and a woman when it comes to tbeir feelings is thst a woman is almost always vocal about what she feels. A woman wants to be assured that she is love as much as she would want to let her patner know and feel that she loves him. On the other hand, a man keeps his inner most feelings because he doesn't feel tbe need to constantly tell his girl what he feels for her. It is lf he said I love you or said that he loves her, it should remain on her head always and not ask him always about it. When a man experiences some problems, he would try to figure it out himself. He is unlikely to disclose himself. And so that can be one reason why men would easy tell what he feels when he is drunk because he dosn't have the strength to control his emotions.
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@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I think it's silly to think that drinking can bolster ones courage. What makes anyone think they'll be able to express themselves any better when they're drunk?
@shaggin (71678)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I think its good to see someone open up about their feelings even if it takes alochol to bring it out. The only problem is when they are sober a lot of men dont remember what they said or will deny what was said and act like they only said it because they were drunk and didnt mean it.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
I can't think of other reasons why most men would. I just wanted to comment because reading the notification of this post reminded me once of my friend who texted me when he was drunk. He said he hadn't been drunk in a long time. The conversation was ok for a while for me until he asked to describe what I was wearing and that "purple underwear looks sexy on a woman...just sayin'" LOL. I just shook my head.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
What a discussion! But this is really interesting and surely many will share their opinions with this certain topic. I don't like the idea of expressing the feelings or revealing the secret once anyone get drunk. It is some sort of showing the coward in within... But as my being so understanding and very much reasonable thoughts then I will try to analyze the reason from this stupidity... LOL... Maybe they are just needing some kind of booster to help them express their thoughts. And if they are still man enough? Then I don't want to be mean but they are lacking...
