Im ready to quit my 2nd favorite site because of its members....

Mexico
December 15, 2012 8:42pm CST
I have another site I earn from.. have for almosot 2 years. The site has had some problems the last few months. No biggie. Many members have left, even though I have worked so hard to keep them, and get them back. But the last few weeks I have been attacked by many members there, for my open opinions. As Im sure you can tell, Im a small girl with big mouth. I will tell you how I feel. all the time. I love the other site, its like facebook, but we get paid. What do I do? Ive tried to deal with the problems there, but the harder I try, the more pain I get. Cant deal with it anymore. Problem is I love so many here, Ive met so many great friends there. Help me deal with it.....
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
17 Dec 12
The first rule of thumb is very simple. If you are stressed, chill for a while. Don't keep going back to where you feel the most stress. A day away or even a few days away can make a great difference in how you feel. In addition to that don't let people get you down. Some people can be vicious. And sadly enough some people live to upset others. The one thing I will never do is get all bent out of shape over a few people on a social site. If you are truly a loyal member there and have worked real hard to get people to join and help bring older members back then you should feel good about that. You do need to not be so sensitive about people. If you love it there and the members there then stay there. Don't leave. Don't ever give up something you feel strong about. And never let other make you leave. So, in a nutshell, rest, chill, clear your mind and go back fresh with a brand new outlook on things. If you're true to yourself then everything will work out for you. Now I will leave you with a few words. Hey Now!!!
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
17 Dec 12
First off let me say that this comment does not sound like you wrote it. Now, you said many left that site for its reason, what reason is that? I would like to know. I think everyone is treated well there. I would really appreciate if you would really explain why the site is bad. Look, I am not a bad person. I consider you my friend here and there. Don't give up on that site.
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• Mexico
18 Dec 12
first.. when posts are deleted from a site like that, for people asking about payments and other things. Thats wrong.. its our site as they say... and we have rights to voice our opinions there.
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• Mexico
17 Dec 12
at some site like in ones life.. you never can win. I think that site is that way. Where many are treated us equal by adm. and by other members there.. its to bad. That site has lost so many people because of this reason.
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@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
16 Dec 12
I can imagine the burden in your heart, and not so easy to deal other people's harsh words. Most of it can lead to depression. Why don't you take a rest from that site for a while and come back when you are ready and emotionally healthy again. It's not worth trying to explain to these poeple, so stay out for the moment.
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• Mexico
16 Dec 12
yes,, and most are very smart they only go so far to post the things at the site... as to not get banned. But then their attacks continue at other chat rooms and emails. Very sad.....
• Mexico
18 Dec 12
Yes.. some know that by posting these bad things at the site. they may get banned. So they use chat rooms and emails. Its almost xmas.. are you ready there??
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
18 Dec 12
They really got that far by sending you emails?? such losers!! Those perople are not worth to be around you know. Why would they make an effort like that and make it such personal. You should block them, they don't have the right to hurt you in any ways.
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
If you quit, your attackers will be rejoicing. I suggest you just stay and this time, keep your cool and let things settle. Which site is this by the way?
• Mexico
16 Dec 12
Let them.. I dont care anymore. Hope they dance on their tables.
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
16 Dec 12
Well, you can either do two things--let them hurt your feelings or keep on posting over there. If I were you, I would keep on posting. If they don't like what I have to say, so what. I speak for myself and you speak for yourself. On the other hand, if you have had it, take a break from the site. When things weren't going to well for me at my favorite sites, I left for a couple of weeks. But you sound like a strong girl, I am sure you can take it. And pay no mind to what they say.
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• Mexico
17 Dec 12
you might have a great idea.. one member told me today. I know its hurts you to be attacked by them. But also by you continuing to do what you do there. It might hurt them even more. Thinking that it doesnt bother you...
• India
18 Dec 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, it is really hard to work with a site, if we don't have good friends there. As you mentioned the site members are not good for you, how can we work with unpleasant members? better to be active here and make good friends using this site
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• Mexico
18 Dec 12
true.. its a great site. I have loved it for almost 2 years now. Im there 5-6 hours a day.. Take care.
@STOUTjodee (3572)
• United States
16 Dec 12
Oh, I know what you mean, my friend! What gets me the most, is I can understand that there are going to be people that won't agree with me and that's fine, but don't use name calling to get "YOUR" point across because you don't agree with me or you misunderstood what I've said. Is there any way you can personally message this person without anyone seeing your conversation? Sometimes the worst part about it is that they aren't even your friend so you could "unfriend" them!! lol
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• United States
16 Dec 12
I'm doing all right ,thanks for asking. How are you doing? Can't believe it's almost Christmas and then 2013! Don't have any snow yet where we live in Nebraska. Maybe it will just snow on Christmas and then it will be gone.
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• Mexico
16 Dec 12
Im just ok, be alittle stressed here. Im all alone. Might even spend xmas along for first time ever...
• Mexico
16 Dec 12
very true.. the worst thing is, we are always attacked when we speak our minds. Doesnt seem right to me.. lets see what happens there this week. So how are you??
• United States
16 Dec 12
I like to earn from my blog. I write about making money online and getting out of debt. I believe that its against the rules here to post my link here. So I wont. But I can tell you a bit about my last post. I posted about why people are poor. Its a simple way of thinking. If you want to be wealthy then you need to think wealthy and work your way to get their. Quitting something that you enjoy and as you call it, your favorite site to earn might not have been the best move. But, if you keep moving forward to reach your dreams you will get there. Only you can cause yourself to fail. If you do not act then you have failed before you even got started.
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• Mexico
16 Dec 12
thanks for the great lines.. I will visit your profile page here. maybe Ill find something good there. Hope you have a great weekend. Keep writing those blogs....
@TeamCholent (2832)
• United States
16 Dec 12
I wouldn't worry as this world is filled with people who believe only they are correct and many are filled with hatred. You just need to focus on the good in every situation and make the most of it. There must be dozens pf great sites you can join and earn from so remember when one door closes another two open
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• Mexico
16 Dec 12
your right.. but kinda hurts when you know you have put so much into a site.. and then get treated like this. Hope you have a great sunday there.....
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
16 Dec 12
Hi maria! If the comments would affect your personal life and earnings as well, I think your decision is good. There is two things for which we could tell a site is good, we ear from it and we enjoy staying on it. But if we are not anymore enjoying, then we can still find other sites. Have a nice day!
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• Mexico
16 Dec 12
It does.. as I spend 4-5 hours a day working on that site. I love it, and its members. There are just a few there,,, who just dont get it...
• Howrah, India
16 Dec 12
It's very usual that not everyone will agree with you,but it's also a fact that many of the members of that may like what you said so don't be upset.Tell them directly that it's my opinion and I don't care anyone...
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• Mexico
16 Dec 12
true. but this has been going on there for along time now...
@robspeakman (1700)
16 Dec 12
Hello Maria, I would be sad to see you go, but if the site is causing you pain and stress then the solution is obvious. You need to think about yourself and your health first. Take care Maria
• Mexico
16 Dec 12
thanks rob, Im just tired of all the attacks. You know Ive done well for the site. And dont deserved to be attacked or anything else there. Thanks, your my good friend. Have a great sunday there. Im off all day on sunday......
@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
Well, you must forget first the attack. Just have a relax and sleep well. Maria.
16 Dec 12
You enjoy your day off Maria Put your feet up and just slum it - That is what I do on my days off
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
For me if a site is causing you stress even though you have loved it you should forget about it and move on.. there are lots of sites waiting for you out there and even it pays it is not worth it if it stress you out because of the members.. remember stress can make u look huggard Or if you really really love that site then resolved the issue with the members..
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• Mexico
16 Dec 12
might be the best thing to do.. so how are you these days? See you here soon....