How many more tests left for me in life.

@jagjit273 (1754)
India
December 21, 2012 10:18am CST
In DEC.2006, my mother passed away and my father declared that he wanted to have a second marriage whether l get myself married or not, in march 2008 my sister left us and got herself married, when we most direly need her in our family, l had to take care of all household jobs and outer things also. I compromised with the situation and just was focusing on my work and my younger brother that i met a girl in feb 2011 and we fell in love. I told her about my sis and then about my father. She left me.
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@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
22 Dec 12
Oh! I feel sorry to know about what happened to you and your family. Truly there are lots of circumstances we can't hardly explain but only God knows. I just want you to know that you are not the only one experiencing horrible things, some are even worse. I just hope and pray that God will guide you and give you more strength to face these hardships in life. Just hang on and you will surely become happy soon. No person really knows when will life tests is gonna end exactly. About that girl you mentioned, you don't deserve her, you deserve a better woman who can love you regardless of what have you and your family have been through. It's good that she showed her true color early. God bless you and and your family!
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 12
It was devastating when my mother passed away in 2006. It was such an awful and upsetting hardship for you. Your father was able to carry on living well and marry a second time. Your sister got married in 2008 and I think you miss her. Well done for focusing on your work and taking care of your younger brother. It was lovely you met a lady in February 2011 and fell in love with her. It is such a shame she split up with you. Maybe a better lady is around the corner. I hope next year is happier for you. Take care.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
21 Dec 12
I meant your mother passed away, sorry. Sometimes I can make a mistake when typing.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
22 Dec 12
I dont miss my sister . I just hate her.
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
22 Dec 12
OH, my dear boy life's tests are never done with they just go on and on making us stronger each time. Happy Holidays to you.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
22 Dec 12
The ways things are going they are making me hard and harsh.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
21 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation and i know u have gone through so many hardships in life. U lost your mother and i know how much void she has left in your life. I think life is all about moving ahead and i know u are a fighter and u will fight all the challenges and have fought also pretty well. U will definitely be blessed by the Almighty, just have faith on him and his tests. What say?
• India
22 Dec 12
Thanks jagjit for sharing your experience with us.Remember jagjit life is not so easy as it seems but you need to keep patience and wait till good time to come.Everybody in some stage of their life go throw rough phases and that is their real test.Do not think yourself alone.May god give you the power to withstand in your bad time.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
22 Dec 12
I know life is full of challenges. I have just compromised with the things the way they are going. But why that love thing happened in my life when i did'nt need it and if it has to end like this then why it started. I was very happy with my bad conditions.