New Year Apologies to my dear MyLot responders

@jaiho2009 (39079)
Philippines
December 31, 2012 11:52pm CST
My year end topic was deleted and I want to express my apologies to all those who take time to respond to that topic. Anyway, have you started your New Year’s resolution (if you have any?) It’s great to start the year with inner peace and asking forgiveness from past misunderstanding is the best way to start a peaceful life and a blessed year. Some people had a hard time either asking forgiveness or forgiving the others. Have you ever thought this is the right time to make a change? So let’s start forgiving and forgetting those who offended us before it get worse. Happy New Year dear mylotters jaiho® forever 01-01-2013 1:51pm Philippine Time
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@thanks1961 (7049)
• India
2 Jan 13
Hi, I had a doubt that they will delete the discussion topic and it happend in such a way! Never mind, it is upto them to decide and we will keep continue. In fact I don't have any new plans in this year and there is no specific resolutions also. For me, everything is old or everything is new. Let the life go on as usual and don't feel anything different. Why? I don't know. But the hope and expectations will remain unchanged and this hope may lead us to think of better and new in the coming hours. Good luck.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello thanks, I am glad to see you again :) I don't have a specific resolution either- or shall I say I stopped making any resolution/s. For me everyday is new year and a new day to spend and use - to be more productive and be thankful for all what I have. Good luck too and have a great day
• India
3 Jan 13
Hi Jai, Nice photo. Hope this is your daughter. Here in India, our Muslim community have this kind of dressing pattern in certain areas. Does she have a small black mole on the left side of her nose or it is a black mark on the photo print? As you decided, I am sure that you will be here with more fun and nice topics everyday. I may be really busy with work and that may be the resason for not in regular, but will try to spend some time with you all. Whatever it may by, I a become selective and choosy and I will try to comment on few people's discussionos at whatever cost.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
Yes, that's my daughter who try to dress like a Muslim girl (for whatever reason :) ) And you are too keen to see her black mole- yes, that's a mole below her right side (that's actually on the right side of her nose my dear) She looks so cute on her attire
@Hence27 (450)
• India
1 Jan 13
We should forgive others.But sometimes it becomes almost impossible to do that.Because if it is not related to others.I think it's easy to forgive others,but if our own familiy members do so,then sometimes it becomes very hard to forgive. But anyways,i wish you a very happy new year to you and your family.Nice staying here.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
hello Hence, I know it's not easy to forgive people who give us too much pain. I have been cheated by a person I love so much and it takes a lot of courage to forgive that person- and I have learned that forgiving gives me freedom and inner peace. It may be hard to do- but indeed worth the try. Thanks for your comment and have a great day :) Happy New Year
@Hence27 (450)
• India
1 Jan 13
Yes,you told absolutely right.But you know one thing,"Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the single person you thought would never hurt you" and the word is i am saying is not for my wife nor anyone in my family,it's for my Bhabhi(my elder brother's wife).i respected her as my mother,but she used to avoid me.I don't know what the reason behind that and yes also my brother.One thing i learnt a lesson from it,don't expect from anyone.I gave her respect as my own mother.I think you can understand my problem.But despite being all that i am very positive my life and i want to forgot her forever.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
I understand what you mean my friend. I know how it feels after disappointment. I agree, better not to expect too much to avoid disappointment. Live your life and forget things of the past :)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
hi jai, What topic was deleted? Oh well it's not your fault sometimes they delete some topic and it's unfair because you don't know why. miss yah!
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
Never mind that deleted topic... I luv you new avatar
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
they love it too??????
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
miss yah
• India
4 Jan 13
Jane beti I have decided to beg apology to all my contacts in india and abroad, if i hurt them knowingly or unknowingly, this includes you and Honey too
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
dear dada, Don't mention anymore...let bygones be bygones.
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• India
4 Jan 13
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
I will definitely change for the better. I've been always telling that to myself not just this year but in the past year as well. And I believe little by little I did changed for the better. I am more stronger now. And with my work experience, I think I have more knowledge before as how to manage the anxiety not just to my line of job but dealing with people as well. The only thing that doesn't change is being weak...though I am stronger, it doesn't mean I am strong enough to deal things...maybe I should just consider myself just above the weak state closer to being strong. Anyways, happy new year!
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
hello smurfy, We all have weakness dear (even the strongest person comes running home when he/she falls down) Don't think your weakness as a failure rather think it as a challenge. I am sure you are a strong person, you only need for the right time to prove you are Have a greay day and HAPPY NEW YEAR
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
What's important to me now is that I am heading on to that strong part and not going down to the weak part. I just say that it would be great if I will make it as my resolution.
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@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
Hi there jai Happy New Year! No need for apologies as it often happens here in myLot. Hmmm... let me think about that New Year's resolution. Well I have forgiven some. And some, I think it is best to leave it as such. I also hope I have been forgiven if in case I hurt some people too. I have no New Year's resolution as I know I'd just keep breaking them.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
dear en That's better not to have any (resolution) than breaking it even before we've started :) Don't worry about, I have forgiven you for not coming online too often Take care always there my dear
@Kalyni2011 (3503)
• India
4 Jan 13
Jane beti At 00.00 hours i was in the train on way to my son's home in Hyderabad, i agree let us forget all bitterness, quarrels and misunderstandings with all, start life afresh, the blessings of others will go with us there to HIS COURT BLESSINGS FROM MAA
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
dear maa, Thanks for the blessings
@june2248 (154)
3 Jan 13
Hi Jaiho2009, HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and your family.yes you are right that we should forgive but sometimes its not possible, i believe you learn from your mistakes but you should not take it granted. Always leave the way that you can come back. TK
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
hello june, I know it's not easy to forgive and it also depends on how much pain and what kind of mistake a person ever did to us. But- I am sure in the long run, forgiveness will take place at the right time. Thanks and have a great day
@ulan12rc (223)
• Qatar
2 Jan 13
To forgive and to forget, it's so easy to be said but difficult to be done. It's nice to start the year with that kind of thinking makes us a peaceful person and makes our life lighter. I hope that everyone of us can follow that New Year's Resolution, it is if we have that on the list ;). Good luck and Happy New Year!
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello ulan, Too many resolutions but most of it are broken before the end of the month (January) or before the year ends. I am one of those who doesn't have a list/s or any specific resolution for this year 2013. I have wishes and dreams...and I will try my best to achieve some of it. Thanks and have a great day
@yanzalong (8729)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 13
Happy New Year of 2013, jaiho2009. I hope this year will be a lot better for us all. Forgive me if my responses in 2012 have caused misunderstandings. Happy mylotting, my friend.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello yanzalong, Thanks for the greetings and I wish you all the best as well Happy mylotting and thanks for the comment
@deiusz (194)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 13
you right, not all people has chance for any condition for asking forgiveness. But i think this day is good day to start that whatever the condition, but at least need to try better than never try. Even we can do this anytime and no need to wait till new year. But in psychology conditional, this day make some people still in happy condition, so better we can use this moment for that.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello deiusz, Actually during this time people tried their best to be happy and set aside whatever problem or troubles they are facing. Yes, at least everyone (almost) finds this season to smile,laugh and be happy (for whatever reason) Thanks and have a great day
@nijolechu (1845)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
Happy New Year to you as well. It really is hard for me to figure out which discussion to respond to. I just respond to the discussions that I find interesting without knowing whether the Mylot admin will delete them or not. I am very forgiving of the people around me and not like to carry around a grudge with other people. I hope the new year is prosperous to you and as well with all the other Mylot members here.
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello nijo, Thanks for the understanding my friend I myself find it hard to determine what topics are likely to be deleted (aside from poll type,milestone, solicitation, promoting sites and links etc) I feel bad that my topic was deleted - but it's really hard to tell because I know I did my best to avoid violating rules.. I am glad that mylotters are still here to respond to my topic/s. have a great day
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Be more productive for me as much as I can. I have been really lazy these past few years. And I think it's about time to start a new and make good this year. I also think it's about time to go back to the Lord God, I have not made my path to him last year. Hopefully I am not all words as well this year and hopefully I could really do it. Good luck to us all. Happy 2013!
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello gaiza, I am happy for you my dear. God is always there and will never turn HIS back to HIS child who wants to come back. Wish you all the best
@nezavisima (7419)
• Bulgaria
1 Jan 13
very well. I fre entering the new year gives everyone a clear predtsenka on how to move forward. I personally have decided this year to work a lot to pay off my debts so I can breathe. will be working hard to ensure a bright future for me, my children and my husband. I will become a better, or at least try. thank you for this discussion. nice day!
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello neza, Changing for the better is the best move to do my dear I wish you all the best for this year
• Hyderabad, India
1 Jan 13
i am not having any misunderstandings with you i think you are my best buddy dont worry i forgive you with out doing any mistakes
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Hello raja, Oh...thanks buddy and welcome to Mylot Anyway, thanks for your comment and HAPPY NEW YEAR
@akp100 (13193)
• India
1 Jan 13
Hi Jaiho... Happy New Year. Well, This is the best time to forget those misunderstanding and anger for sure. If two parties are ready to settle go for it, but hope they make sure they don't start fighting again. Well, I have already forget about those past things of 2012.. Ready get set go for 2013.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
hello akp, It's not good to have bad feelings towards the others, therefore forgiving is the best step to achieve inner peace :) Happy New Year too my dear
@ddaguno (3110)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
why was it deleted? i was quite surprised because i found that post interesting and very positive. because of the amount that you earned?
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
hello ddaguno, Yes, it was deleted - sometimes there are unclear rules it says it's due to solicitation Anyway, thanks for coming again my dear.. Happy New Year
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
I thought I was the first to respond here awhile ago? Upon checking now, that response was not posted. Maybe it was my connection again.. Anyway, I think that post of yours regarding New Year was deleted because it connotes a milestone -- that is according to myLot rules and guidelines. I made a christmas topic but was deleted. I receive an email from myLot saying that reason that I had told. Forgiving and forgetting are two different things for me. I can think of situations in my life where in I can forget but I can't forgive. Sorry about that. That maybe are one of the things that I have to work on with my life -- along with other things. One by one, with God's grace, I will be able to do what I need to do. Happy Mew Year!
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
hello bluespygirl, Well, it's hard to distinguish what topic may fall into milestone category. I guess my best wasn't good enough (hehehe) Anyway, I understand about forgetting and forgiving. I know there are times that we may forgive but we can't forget the reason or situation that easily. It's a normal feeling especially if there's something, or any similar situation that will remind us of the past- but in the long run...the bad memory will fade. Glad to see you again my friend and sorry for my deleted topic Happy New Year