What you do when things go wrong?

@waleeds (126)
January 7, 2013 3:09am CST
It so happens that sometimes things do not go in your way or perhaps everything what you initially though begins to fade away. I just want to know what you when going gets tough. do you revert yourself to God; visit your friends;or sit quietly in a dark room and start thinking about the bleak future? i every individual has its own preferences, priorities, and way of dealing with things but as humans we all have some things in common.
4 responses
• China
7 Jan 13
Hi Waleeds, Welcome to mylot. Nothing makes a situation worse than basing our emotions on anger,frustration or sadness.We should calm down first because it really plays a key role on our thinking or behaviour of the next steps.Then I'll discusss it with my besties.The outsider always sees the most of the game.They can give me some good advice or comments on it.And after I consider the feedback from them,I try to make a simplest plan and save the day. Have a nice day.
@waleeds (126)
7 Jan 13
First of all than you very much sunshine for your welcome words and wishes. that's right it would be a lot better if you discuss your problems with best friends and try focusing on making simplest plans and keep yourself happy with little things in life. thanks again for commenting..take care
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
When things turn into wrong proportions, I always check on the problem and see good solutions to it. Rather than sleeping it overnight and in the other day get preoccupied on the problem itself. I find myself looking for solutions, answers and how to fix it rather than just leaving it all behind.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
7 Jan 13
There is this saying : "When the going gets tough, the tough gets going" We should review why things did not go the way we plan. Analyse and improve it, we learn from our mistakes. That is how we grow to be a better person. Therefore, never give up and I believe a bigger success is just waiting right in front of you after the turns ahead.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
7 Jan 13
I usually try to at first, tackle them myself, by myself. So I go to my room,. or somewhere else I can be alone, and think about the future and consequences. I'm quite an overanalyzer, so I think I'd drive my friends crazy if I started all that loud thinking with them.