What is the best way to express your love to the Beloved?
January 7, 2013 3:18am CST
When it comes to expressing your love, one of the most difficulties that one usually faces is the medium in which the love should be expressed? besides, not many people are quite sure about the timing of the expression. i know many people would say that it would be better to express your love directly to the beloved but great thinkers say that "A weak lover say directly to the beloved"? This statement certainly confuses other in that it forbade you from expressing directly verbally. according to these thinkers, it's rather wise to give some kind of positive signals that shows your love to the beloved instead of throwing verbal bricks. what do you say to this?
7 Jan 13
It depends on the situation. Sometimes, telling some soothing words is the best, sometimes a touch, a kiss is the best way, and sometimes it's good to show the love with deeds - it can be anything from giving up a habit of yours your spouse hates or decide to move in together, or a thoughtful gift... anything of these can be a good way of expressing emotions.
7 Jan 13
Thanks for the comment All-timer. May be you're right that one should spend time as much as he/she can with the beloved because it not only allows the lover to understand himself/herself but also the beloved can make a better judgment out of you. hoping to learn more from future as you are an experienced campaigner. thanks again.
• Penrith, Australia
8 Jan 13
Actions do speak louder than words. Well to answer your title, I'd make my loved one their favorite food and surprise it with them. I'd do stuff they don't like like cleaning for them. I'd let them pick the movie they want to watch and I'd do my best to enjoy it even if it wasn't something I would have picked. When they are feeling very upset, I'd hold them and let them talk about everything they need to talk about for as long as they need to talk. I'll stroke their hair until they calm down and feel that someone is listening to them. I'd tell them things I love about them, no matter how minor or how seemingly insignificant it is. I'd introduce them to the people in my life and I'd show how proud I am to have someone like them to present to my friends and family. I'd make sure they feel like the welcomed guest that everyone is excited to meet them. I'd let them sleep on the side of my bed they sleep best on, even if I like that side too. Id let them try to eat my dessert with my spoon, even though deep inside, I'd want to eat the whole thing by myself. I'll let them have the last slice of pizza. Hold them and kiss them when they wake up. Listen to their embarassing stories and I won't laugh at them. Kiss the parts of them that they are self-conscious about because the imperfections are part of a greater whole which wouldn't be the same without them. I'd tell them secrets I've never told anyone before. I'd teach them how to do something I love. And I'll be patient with them if I see they're trying. I'd remind them that they are worthy and deserving. And I'd kiss them when they least expect it and try to say everything with that kiss that I may be too nervous or too cheesy to say out loud. Trust them that they will understandme, even if I don't always have the right words for it. That my friend is what I would do.
24 Jan 13
When a guy express love to a girl or woman of course is the most romantic. But it takes courage and mental strength to a guy if you want to express that love. Millions of words are laid out, but that often happens when it all fell apart in front of him. All words that have been arranged suddenly dispersed to spread some where. His charm make us forget what is about to say. Did you know that true love is not stated directly, but should also be done in a way that implied. Touch your face and hair when you talk to him Give a touch on the shoulder and knees when you talk to him Laugh when he threw a joke Offer him to add water when you are in a cafe and drink his glass empty While at the party, face-to-eye from a distance while throwing the most charming smile
24 Jan 13
I believe expressing love is not limited to words alone. I am not the romantic kind, I don't know how to express my love. But I do prove it with my actions, unknowingly. If you really love a person, it will show... our partner just have to more perceptive with our subtle signals. If I want to show love... I will hug that person, listen to that person and support him all the way. Simply being there is more than enough.