Is it wrong to ask for your workmates help to raise a fund for institutions?

@nat1_ong (150)
Guam
January 7, 2013 7:46am CST
I messaged my workmates to help my niece's institution for children with special needs because they need materials, toys, medicines, and various stuffs after the devastation that happened when the building is strucked by typhoon. The kids need it. I really want to help. Any amount will do, but my mom is so negative on what I am doing. I really have the heart to help people in any way I can. Is that a crime. I can help but I believe if I were able to raise a lot of money, more can be helped. Is it a crime to ask other people?
8 responses
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
7 Jan 13
As long as all you are doing is asking. You are not nagging them nor pressuring them. You are not putting them on the spot where they feel obligated to give. It will ruin relationships if they feel that you are pressuring them to give. And then, it would be harder to ask them another time. So, just ask once, don't pressure them to give, be thankful, even if they don't give and then, see if you can find others who are willing to give. Some people give to other charities than yours - so be respectful. Perhaps, you can support their charities while they give to your causes. Giving needs to come from the heart.
@nat1_ong (150)
• Guam
8 Jan 13
I admire your ideas and thoughts it is true that in every act, whether they give or help or not, still be grateful to them. That's the right thing if you would ask me. I asked them once and told them in a nice and honest way. I've been working like for 3 months and I think they would trust me with what I say.
• United States
7 Jan 13
I applaud you for your generosity in helping other in need and trying to raise fund to help them. No I do not find it wrong to ask you workmates for any help they might be able to give. I feel that if they were the ones needing help they would ask of you to help contribute and I am sure you would give to them.
@nat1_ong (150)
• Guam
8 Jan 13
Yes, definitely. I do. I really love helping other people in my own little ways I can. I am asking for help but if they would not give support then it's fine to me. It is really okay. I am sure that if they would help in any case, I would really do and help my home country and for the kids.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
7 Jan 13
Well i think it's not wrong to ask from them but it might cause them so inconvince in terms of cash.
@nat1_ong (150)
• Guam
7 Jan 13
I guess so, I am helping my home country. I am based now abroad. So, its hard if I ask them non-monetary. I hope they could trust me as a person, because it will really help those in need.
@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
That's a good deed to help other people. For me, it is fine solicit to co-workers for support. The help is for a great cause. The support will help a lot of people and I am sure they will give even small things can do.
@benchao (43)
• China
8 Jan 13
no crime!
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
7 Jan 13
It's not a crime of course to ask for help especially for a help for othe people. You just need to make it sure to them that it's really for donating and helping the kids. Perhaps you should give them contacts to some officials for them to confirm about charity donations you are asking from them.
@nat1_ong (150)
• Guam
10 Jan 13
I posted the picture and some of the proof that the kids and the institution needs prompt help. I guess that helps. Thank you for the input you pushed so far
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
That's indeed a good act to help the needy. I knew someone who organizes a fun run and bazaar for her dying officemate. I really admire this woman who did all the effort to raise money for her officemate who is suffering kidney failure and is now undergoing dialysis twice a week. I am sure your officemates will help you with your kindness...keep it up
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
7 Jan 13
It's a really hard question, because people's opinions differ on this subject. Some people see this as okay, but some people hate it when their e-mail accounts or facebook pages are spammed and flooded with messages asking help or money. If I had a problem like that, I think I would talk to the people in person, because it can really be really annoying when I get messages like that in my e-mail, and because of them I can't really see the valuable mails, because peopl,e here tend to send these kinds of messages. Also, that way, you can know who can help, and who cannot, because charity is a good thing, but most people don't have the money to donate to every single charity that sends them a message. Maybe write to a local paper? Then people could donate, not even only money, but certain equipments or toys.