we are planning to become a parent

India
January 10, 2013 9:21am CST
my wife is preparing to be a mother of my cute child. we are married since 2 year. she got abortion 2 times. now again we are planing to be a parent. what are the pre -pregnancy caring and diet for her to get a cute smart baby
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• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hi soora, May I ask if you don't mind she got abortion intentionally? or you mean miscarriage? Well I am not a parent yet but I have a 9 months nephew who brings so much joy in our family right now. I think she must avoid unhealthy foods and be positive in life always happy mylotting
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• India
10 Jan 13
no . she was unhealthy because of of poor diet. i had provied every thing . but she scheated me. she didnt ate anything. she got malaria. had antialarial tabs. sideffects killed my baby
@ddaguno (3110)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
you dont get malaria with poor diet so dont blame your wife. if she got malaria while pregnant then your baby might have suffered severe damage. It just want meant to be. If your wife gets pregnant again support her. she might not be in the mood to eat... it just comes with the pregnancy. moringa is good for pregnancy. the leaves are full of vitamins that would keep her healthy but more than the food your support would be the best thing you can give her
• India
10 Jan 13
i know malaria is caused by anglophiles mosquito . i said that because her immunity power lost due to poor diet. so that she had to take highly powerful antimalarial tabs. that caused the sudden stop of heart rate of baby. if she takes good diet ,she has would have the power to survive from diseases. this moringa means drumstick? i am ready to support her more and more
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
11 Jan 13
Congratulations for finally taking your marriage to the next step - parenthood. Your wife should be always eating healthy. And she should also have enough rest. Try consulting the OB GYNE so that she can be checked prior to getting pregnant. All the rest can be given by the doctor. Good luck!
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• India
12 Jan 13
oh thankyou dear. can you suggest any homely foods which gives to get the fairness of mother as well as baby?
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
hello, soorajsrs7srs! I have actually found this article over the net. I think your wife would be happy to try all the food suggested. Here is the link: http://healthybusiness.co.za/blog/1106/tips-for-healthy-food-choices-for-expectant-mothers/
@ShyBear88 (17538)
• United States
10 Jan 13
Don't for get to take viteams they are very important to take every day while pregnant, before and after.
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• India
12 Jan 13
ok.now she is having her vitamin tablets and iron tablets.
@ShyBear88 (17538)
• United States
12 Jan 13
Eat well and walking is very important unless the doctor says other wise.
@ZoeJoy (1395)
• United States
11 Jan 13
Well, for a cute baby - they are all cute. So, not much you need to do to have a cute baby. :) For a smart baby - read to your baby. Even read to your baby before your baby is born. Babies can hear inside the womb. So, just borrow some children's picture books or baby books from the library and read to your baby. Read to your baby from the time he or she is just born. Also, talk to your baby - not just 'baby talk' but talk in an intelligent manner. When you change your baby's clothes, talk in a smoothing voice and tell your baby, now I am putting on your shirt. Isn't in a nice shirt - it is a green (or whatever color it is) shirt. It has a cute teddy bear on it (or whatever it has on it) and it has short sleeves. Now, we are getting ready to go outside, or where ever you are going. Reading and talking to your baby, first bonds you and your baby. Also, your baby hears and listens to language and the more a baby and young toddler hears words, the easier it will be to learn to talk and to learn about words. So reading and talking to your baby will help your baby to learn and be smart.
• India
12 Jan 13
ok. my meant was a healthy baby. anyway you have said a good advice. its a very helpful tips.
• Philippines
18 Jan 13
I am five months pregnant with my second child. I was on a high risk pregnancy on my first baby. Am just so glad that I'm quite okay now with my second pregnancy. Well my friend, all your wife needs to do in preparation for her pregnancy is to eat healthy foods like vegetables and fruits. She may want to drink milk for pregnant or soon to be mothers. Vitamins like iron would also be okay. Or may want to go to your nearest ob-gyne for consultation regarding the matter. If by God's grace your wife gets pregnant again, please try to understand her condition. The first trimester is very crucial. Some women like me, don't really have the appetite to eat. We are on our worst condition during that time, so just bear with her okay? don't worry it won't take long... hehehe Good luck my friend!
@Janurmas (645)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 13
Try to provide her foods that contain double vitamins and proteins. A pregnant woman needs extra vitamins and proteins compared to a non pregnant woman. The extra vitamins and proteins will help the baby grows in the womb. For a better foods preparation, ask to midwife. May you have a happy family after your baby's birth. Cheers...!
@Bhebelen14 (5206)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Like you my husband and I planning to have a child as soon as possible and we follow some diet to make us healthy for the preparation for my pregnancy. I think the best thing to do is to visit her ob-gyne for proper guidance about the pregnancy, vitamins and diet.
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
17 Jan 13
First of all congrats for sharing such a good news to us. Asked to take rest and not to do any hard work and don't allow her to lift any heavy object since she had already had two abortion first. Meet the Gynecologist and he/she is the right person to suggest the correct diet so that your wife and child can be healthy. God bless both of them.
• China
11 Jan 13
Wow,as a man,pls do not let your wife get abortion even for one time,2 times are really bad for the health of your wife. Any way,wish you two will have a cute baby very soon.
• China
10 Jan 13
I got married last year,and my husband and I still have no plans of being parents.I am afraid of giving birth to a baby,my friends told me it was awfully painful.So I should overcome my fears first.
@edvc77 (2143)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
I can't believe this she had two abortions. Children are gifts from God. The pregnant mother must be healthy for herself and for her baby. She has to go to doctor too and pray always.