Marry- for what?

@jricky1 (6800)
China
January 11, 2013 4:12am CST
Some people get married cuz they are dating for many years and have to do that.To build a family of responsibility.So what about you? What's the reason to keep it long and happy?
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7 responses
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
Marry if that what you want to do. And marry for good reasons and not short term goals. Marriage needs constant and everyday work. it needs a lot of positive attitudes to make it strong and least. It depends on who the relationship develop bu reminding one's self why they married is sometihng to ponder once in a while.
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• India
11 Jan 13
I agree. Marrying just because, there is a social obligation to do so is not one should optimally go for. They should do what their hart says, not what their mind, or the people around. Being responsible is fine, but taking responsibility of your own happiness should be a priority..
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
11 Jan 13
Thanks for the constructive advice and i appreciate that.Happiness is the priority no matter in which relationships.Responsibility is two people's task.So i believe in that.Have a nice day.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Jan 13
I married my husband because we want to be together forever already. It is our love that made us tie the knot. But as to having dated for how many years as reason is for me not a valid reason to get married. You have to be together for the rest of your lives through marriage, so it has to be love as reason.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
14 Jan 13
I am also confused with you question, I sometimes think to marry because me and my girl friend can live together for more times, but then I think that there will be more responsibility and I have to give more time to her. So it comes with the benefit and I think one can be happy if they understand the meaning of a relation. They have to help each other, in what ever matter comes in front.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
14 Jan 13
I think that if two people really love each other and have made it through good times and bad times then they should stay together. Having a successful relationship isn't as easy as the movies portray (although it would be nice if it was). It takes effort and commitment to make a relationship work. When both individuals work at this they can have a very good relationship.
• India
11 Jan 13
I would like to marry a person whom i cannot live without , whose advice and opinions care to me the most.Who will surely help me in my struggles. Everyone is often thinking what they are doing is right.Share it to others , and see everything from others point of view.I need other half , who can help me with these and i hope to do the same to her.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
11 Jan 13
A guy's personality is really important in a marriage.So two people needs understanding actually in our life.That's why they can keep it fresh and longer enough.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
12 Jan 13
I think if you love someone you just want to be with them..forever. You want to make them happy and being with them makes you happy. Yeah, it's all about love. You might already have a family and you may have been married before, and you don't necessarily need marriage, but why not when that's the only person you are ever going to be with? Just keeping each other happy is the reason to be married. Someone to love and love you back as you grow in age.