feeling so empty n frustrated

@siri26 (331)
India
January 20, 2013 3:51am CST
Why people play with our feelings. Now a days people became so selfish and easily hurting others. It's hard to find real friends nowadays. Most of them are just acting and simply acting like they care for us. It's our mistake to allow them to hurt us. But how come we can imagine every one will be like this. Completley losing hope on relations. How family is important to us on the other hand friends also so important. But I always get cheated by them. Damn life feeling so bad. Unable to accept that they just acted for the sake of their need. Hate them
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15 responses
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
i feel you, my friend but think about it, maybe they are acting like that because they have been cheated and fooled by other people too that's why they became bitter and making other people's lives a hell. friends are really hard to find there's no doubt about it and it is better to have few friends who are real than to have lots of who are fake. don't be upset, my friend because your family is always there for you no matter what. your family is the best friend you could ever have so do not find a best friend in other people, because you already have at home. have a nice day!
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
21 Jan 13
It is sad to see that so many people are selfish. That they purposely try and hurt others. It is difficult to find friends. When we find good friends we need to hold onto them. They really are a treasure that we should cherish. Sorry to hear that they treated you so bad. I hope that you will find better friends.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Jan 13
I think that these things are part of our lives. We should be able.to learn from the experience and be a better person, hopefully.
@siri26 (331)
• India
20 Jan 13
Yup. Life has to goon
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
20 Jan 13
Hi siri! I would suggest that you just try your best to do what you supposed to do. Say, you have a job, do well and show them that you are performing well with it. If you are a student, make good in your class. This way, you will not thinking much of how other people are doing, or how bad they are. The right friend will surely come in the proper time even we do not look for it. Have a nice day!
@siri26 (331)
• India
20 Jan 13
Yup wil do the same. But facing them is so hard
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
Try to overcome your shyness my friend. Perhaps you can always put on a happy face, because that is what draws people to their friends. I for one likes a friend who always have a happy face and disposition in life.
• India
20 Jan 13
People have become more materialistic so it becomes difficult to judge who your true friends are .If you have even one true friend I,d say you are lucky.
@siri26 (331)
• India
20 Jan 13
Yup agree ppl became so materialistic.
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
20 Jan 13
Gone are the days that people know everyone in town which means there are lots of people now in the world that we became overcrowded. We don't even know who are our neighbors. This just explains one factor on how hard it is to find true fiends nowadays. If we find some, we are not so sure if they can be trusted. But my advise is that just be yourself.
@siri26 (331)
• India
20 Jan 13
Being simply ourself is very hard. Ayways now a days I feel it's better be ourself rather than all these pains
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
21 Jan 13
In the world of ours,the present day set up is very much adopting lifestyles wherein sincerity and true love are restricted to the barest minimum extent. Nowhere could anyone hope to find real love and personal attachment extending to pure and inspiring likeness for each other. Apart from just acquaintances,true friendship is rarely to be found in this world.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
21 Jan 13
Sorry to hear you situation like this, I believe not every one would be like this. Just like what you described, some people act like your good friend at the beginning, at the end, they stab on your back ruthlessly. I had a friend before, and he stabbed me on the bad, since I thought I can trust him. Also my ex, I just found out, she never love me a bit, she simply want me to spend money for her.
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
20 Jan 13
Yes, it's the truth of this world, very sad indeed. No one cares about others, even family members tend to think of themselves at some point of the life and friends and relatives are always expected to be selfish, after a certainly, you feel so lonely and hopeless and helpless..no idea how people find this world a happening place.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
20 Jan 13
Friend,don't be upset and things will get better through time.So it heals our wound,learn to be happy cuz we only got two choices to make,why not choose the former one?Don't lose hope and just remember that.Hope things going well.
@Suziecha (89)
• China
21 Jan 13
Yes, what you said is more and more now days. I'm angry with others' hurt, sad with friends' hurt and disregard. I feel more and more luck that I have so much warm family. And I'm also pain and regret when I hurt my family and friends. What I want to say is that all of them is hard-won, we should treasure the all. Enjoy the life.
• Hungary
20 Jan 13
You know we are getting more and more further from each other. I have only a few friends. I'm in my school for I don' know... 8 years now! But I know almost nobody from it. But I have some friends, real friends. Go for quality not for quantity and ignore idiots.
@siri26 (331)
• India
20 Jan 13
Really I am not bothered about quantity. But felt I had quality friend.all of a sudden that became reverse and unable to accept and face them.
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
20 Jan 13
hello siri, Its really sad to know what happened.But there is a rule of life,"One should only trust a single person in life,and that person is in the mirror". In the journey of life we will get such sort of people who are always ready to take advantage of us by some how or the other means,But we have to be careful always. Ans its also true that we are human beings,So in the first sight itself it is next to impossible for us to judge a person,So go ahead and face the consequences ,at the end you would gain something or you would at least learn a new lesson which would be helpful for you in future. Take Care Raj
@rhoiena (109)
• Philippines
20 Jan 13
Yes many people act like they care a lot but not, they act they care you just to know if you are going down and hurt you so much. And some people judge you to the point they feel so perfect.
@Archie0 (5636)
20 Jan 13
You are right. Now days there is nothing called as respect, relationships or trust in them. People and friends just come into your life, play with it, with your feelings, use you and leave away. I have lost so many friends recently. All have been in my life for a time being. And they have left when they got better friends. One of my best friend left me before she spoiled my name. Again later on in my life i got her, i was good to all the time. But she kept getting jealous on me for any reasons. Now she has a boyfriend and she has left me for him. Now we don't talk anymore, i don't feel secure with her. As she always tells everything to the world, our secrets.