Understanding your enemy.

We really have to love our enemies and pray for them for it was commanded. However, it is really hard especially when they continue doing wrong to you. We need God's grace and strength to overcome these things. What I do with my enemies I just ignore them and lifting them to God. And I focus on somethings that are worthwhile.

I am not God, but I will respond to your discussion, hehe. You know, understanding other people especially our enemies is really hard but when we are able to do this, we are really blessed and gifted. Do not hate the person himself, my friend, hate his/her action because s/he might not know what s/he's doing. Do not waste your time having troubles in life. Love your enemies, as the Bible said. Each of us are born unique, this uniqueness may be a gift to us from the creator but more often than not, this is the reason of misunderstanding among us. All we could do in order to avoid hurting one another is to learn how to understand and accept others as well as ourselves. Have a good time!

That is a good prayer I read. Yes. It is really difficult for us to forgive our enemies because we are not that perfect unlike Jesus Christ who is a great spiritual leader and a perfect spirit that can totally forgive sins. It takes time to forgive our enemy. It is not a rush but, it takes time. Maybe after 2 or 3 years, you already forgiven your enemy as long as that person would change his attitude after a couple of years.

Well, I have been around with my "enemy". And I can no fo anything about it coz he is my husband's brother. I have tried to live with it after so many years. He is still annoying at times, but I have learned to just get out of his way when he starts to open his mouth. It saves me from hearing nasty things and the "all-knowing stuff" that he has.

If I have some people took the liberty to betray me, I just ignore it. Then I will not make any contacts from there anymore. What's the use of understanding them, they violated my simple rules to respect me.

Enemies are everywhere. The more you pay attention to them, the more your life will become complicated. Only God can help you to face them and of course hope that one they will change for the best. It is not good to wish bad things for your enemy. If it weren't for them, you would have not known have to forgive and of course trusst in God fully.

God can hear everything you tell Him and He is very understanding. I'm sure He will guide you to do the right things. Prayer is very powerful. Just keep in touch with God through prayers.