Would you marry a bad woman?

Philippines
January 24, 2013 7:40pm CST
We produced a play production written by a Filipino contemporary playwright. The play is about a bi**h who was raped by her father and traded by her mother to the wh*re house. I played the role of the main character and in order to give justice to the role, the director gave me an assignment and that was to go to the park at night and observe how sl*ts move, seduce and speak. Well, that was a hard assignment and a hard role to portray but while observing, I just asked myself, "would men marry sl*ts and take them seriously?". I don't want to judge them because I know there is a reason why they do that and why they are in that situation. But I just want to know if there are men who would fall in love with them and would save them in that kind of lifestyle.
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@edvc77 (2143)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
If that happens then the sayings, "love is blind," is true.
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• Philippines
25 Jan 13
But there is also a saying that, "Love is not blind, it sees but it doesn't mind". hahahaha. thanks for your response!
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@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Valorie , very mind blowing line --- Love is not blind , it sees but doesn't mind hahaha so right ! It sees everything from minute to bigger things but it doesn't mind anything at all...
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• Philippines
25 Jan 13
haha, thank you. This line was very popular when I was in college. I believe that when you love somebody, you see their flaws and imperfections but you choose to accept everything about him/her and that makes love wonderful. Cheers!
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• Indonesia
25 Jan 13
hi valorie, in my opinion love can't be equated with our logic. sometimes i wonder why that handsome man would like to marry the fat women? but that is love no logic here. even this women is a bi**h. and love is not about what you did in the past but about how to make a better future with your lover.
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Love is really a mystery and it is illogical sometimes. When you love, you do not think what others would say and you do not care if the world is against the two of you. What matters to you is that you have each other whatever happens.
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• Indonesia
25 Jan 13
when i answer your question i was hearing song "love heart".yeah i never care even the worlds is against me. how about you?
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• China
25 Jan 13
Wow,such a huge assignment,even I think it is not correct for a student. OK back to your topic,I think that usually boys will not marry to those women,and if they do so they will not take it serious,because boys will look down their wife. But sometimes there are true love happen to those women,but this proportion is rare.
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• Philippines
25 Jan 13
That was really hard for me, but I had to do it for work. Hm, you have a point but maybe there are men out there who are understanding and who have great personality that they do not care about their woman's past.
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@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
There are people who have a very kind , beautiful heart that does not know how to judge a person but instead understand a person . So many i heard being married and living decently and happily now. Some broad , loving people doesn't ming someone's past. What is important is the present, what is important is the girl have change and making her life better now . Past is past we can do nothing about it but learn a lesson from it. All have his own piece in this world , no one is perfect and sinless so i guess all have the right to correct mistake and live a better path.
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• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Past is past--right Angel! I think men who would fall in love with them are really great and I admire them because it is not easy to marry a woman who has been judged by the society.
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• Kochi, India
25 Jan 13
No,those people transmit Aids.You can't fall in love with them if you keep them away.Actually some people are destined to do bad things.Your play sounds exciting,but people won't buy it since,that kind of things don't happen nowadays,most of the people chooses this 'profession' not because of poverty or anything.They just feel excited,selling their bodies.After sometime when they realize their mistake it would be too little too late for that. Lol
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• Philippines
25 Jan 13
hahaha, maybe, but I do not want to judge anybody anyway. But you have a good point. thanks for your response!
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@Shavkat (56786)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Some people wouldn't mind whatever the bitter experience from the past. As long she is open to the person she loved. It is a matter of knowing the real person is.
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Hi Shavkat! You are right. The most important thing about loving someone is to accept who she is even she has a dark past. true love always understands and accepts.
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@jagjit273 (1740)
• India
25 Jan 13
From practical pont of view,no man would go for such lady. Though many have talked about love here. But once you got married to such lady and after so$e time this thing will come to one's mind that she was a pros/ sl*t at a time. But in society many such cases are prevailing. Even those who are counted good woman are doing such bad deeds after marriage, just for money.
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• India
25 Jan 13
Your question is of two fold. First one is to love and the second one is to save them. As far as later is concerned, there are many organisations, who are working hard to save and restore their life. As love is concerned, yes , it is possible. Love is related to care and if a man finds enough care from a lady, let her be bad or good for society, she will be the best for that man. We have seen many movies related to this type of stories, where hero falls in love with a prostit*te n all. So marriage is related to love and again love is related to care, which is available with all sorts of living elements, only compatibility ends up with a happy married life.
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
2 Feb 13
first of all, congratulations on your part! I hope you enjoy the role and that you become very successful in theater if this is an aspiration of yours. In all reality, I think it depends on the man. Many men have be used by women before. Many men who have assets are constantly tagged by women who just want nothing more than their bank account. this is very sad, and I always feel so sorry for them, it is very hard for a wealthy man to find true love in this world. so, probably men who have had ladies be used on them for gain, well, they might be a little more critical of the situation. all in all, it boils down to: 1. do you love her and 2. do you not care what peers or family will say. that is often the hardest thing, what others will say. Once you get over that, I think love is very easy. No matter what the past. I know, as a woman, I do not care if my soul mate has a past, or children by other women, etc. I really do not care about such things, it matters if he loves me. Much good luck on your theater!!!!
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
Oh, thank you! I really love stage acting and I hope the spectators enjoyed our performance. Well, you are really right because love always has to be unconditional.
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
25 Jan 13
Hi Valoraree, I could know that you are an artist of drama. Yes the event you have narrated, it is being happened in every society and polluting the holly relation of father and daughter. This type of news are making our girls unhappy and the girls are suspecting their fathers. As such, all these incidents are making our society imbalanced, which are not expected.
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
that is the sad the reality of life. everything that's happening in our society is getting worse.
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@hestylim (1211)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 13
I think, there are some men that will marry them. If the man loves her enough, he would want to drag her from that dark place. Love is unpredictable and sometimes it is so not logical...
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
It has happened many times, men marrying women with dark past. These men have probably fallen in love with these women so we can't blame them nor make any judgment. Playing the role of a wh*re would be easy. If you are fond of watching Jersey Shore, then just observe any of the women characters and you are on the right track. You will wear very tight-fitting and short clothes, wear heavy make-up, smoke and cuss.
@mariaperalta (19096)
• Mexico
25 Jan 13
If you loved them, who cares. But would be hard I think to love a person like that. Just my opinion. Take care there.
25 Jan 13
Well, it is hard to say, there is a saying in China which is "Beauty lies in lover's eyes". If the woman is the type of the man, I think no matter how bad she is in somebody's opinoin, to the man, she is perfect, that's enough.