okay so basically

United States
January 27, 2013 11:36pm CST
I've always kept an open mind, but I feel my mind is opening and expanding more and more as each day passes. I feel like I just keep changing; I'm molding myself into the person I want to be; the person I'm supposed to be; the person I've always been. And I'm kind of falling in love with the process; kind of falling in love with myself. Is that weird?
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@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 13
I don't think it is weird. I think it is completely normal. :) Love yourself is a must, because none will do it better than you do. Loving yourself and becoming someone you want to be is a gift, I can say. Because not everyone can do that kind of thing. Some people are afraid to face changes because they are afraid of the risk they are going to take. Some people are afraid of doing what they want to do because they are afraid of what other people are going to say about them. So, it is not weird.. It is GREAT. Loving yourself to the max is great. My advice, make sure the love of yourself not grow to selfishness. "Love yourself, not to be self centered but to be good to the self that will always be with you till the end of your life"
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• United States
28 Jan 13
I agree! I love myself first, but I do always try to put others before myself, if that makes any sense. I don't think I could ever be a selfish person. I do think sometimes people need to be selfish - because you do need to take care of yourself before taking care of others. But I think everyone should ALWAYS help someone if they have it in their power to do so.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
28 Jan 13
I think it depends on people to people. Most times what we think is what we are. I think if we have positive thinking we will have positive attitude towards our lives.
• United States
28 Jan 13
I think so, too! :)
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
I don't find it weird. I think that it is something that you owe yourself, too. Coz some people tend to forget themselves over other people. And to know that you know who you really are, what you want and what you need to be is what really matters most.
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@cecil04 (409)
• South Africa
28 Jan 13
Judging from the age I found on your profile you are just going through the process of maturing into a young adult and there's nothing weird about that. Just make sure you don't lose all of your old personality because that will lead you to grow apart from people close to you.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
28 Jan 13
No, it's not weird. It's good for us to love the person we are, or are becoming. We are happy to see the changes that take place within ourselves. The changes that affect our mind,body, and relationships with others. Especially when these changes are for the better.When they benefit us and others as well.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
28 Jan 13
This is good you love yourself and you appreciate yourself too. No one can ever appreciate ourselves more but ourselves. yes, this is just great to know. Those are characteristics to have more confidence and high self esteem. Just be careful, you might fall inlove with yourself so much, but be careful you might develop.. "Naricissitic Personality Disorder". Just to tell you, please don't get me wrong. be careful to have this disorder. Check the link below to know further about it. I mean no offense. http://www.ehow.com/how_4818960_not-love-naricissitic-personality-disorder.html
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• United States
28 Jan 13
Oh I promise, I could never be narcissistic or selfish. I always put others before myself. I am just realizing I need to start taking care of myself first sometimes because I can't help others if I am suffering.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
30 Jan 13
Yes, very nice of this ariel. I am sure you are not just beautiful outside, you are also beautiful inside....
@maurya83 (923)
• India
13 Mar 13
Nope, its not weird at all, it indicates you are growing up :) For a couple of months i also have the same feeling for myself. I have changed many things in myself from negative to positive and would like to continue the process for whole life. It gave me a sense of being me, being a better person day by day. I am totally in love with myself, with my life. No complains, no fear, no guilt..just an expression of acceptance..