how to make your man happy??

Philippines
January 30, 2013 5:42am CST
Into my mind providing happiness to the one you truly love is far more than mutual love. It is that profound thing that you want to share and give without a doubt. I would just like to ask any ideas from you girls who already did show or share their one of a kind act that make their man happy, as well as to the guys out here what is that one thing or two things that you really would like your love one to show you how much they love you. I already have read different books about relationship thus, i just want to know your opinion. Thanks
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12 responses
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
30 Jan 13
hi, dont worry much,there is no rocket science to make a man happy but very simple things; 1.love him unconditionally,it should not depend on money,material things his job or his status in society. 2.total respect when alone and most especially with other people. 3.be faithful 4.make him your number one priority. 5.stand as one in all issues this doesn't mean take wrong decisions but what is correct stand together. 6.share all what you have ,there is no mine but ours. 7.be open, no secrets. i think with this few you can see what to do, i hope it helps.
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• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Thank you so much for these tips pom! Yes you are right those are actually pillars of having a good lasting relationship. Yes i know there is no perfect formula for hooking man, what i am in here is just that i want to give love and by that giving him happiness may it be the simplest or the grandeur most act. I just want him to be happy that is all. wee! As long i can do it why not.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
31 Jan 13
it all depends on the guys needs that would make him happy.only his partner knows that. most needs attention and caring so girls should always be ready to do it.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
1 Feb 13
to really make a man happy. try to follow all his rules and dont forget to cook good foods for him.
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
what are the usual rules for you? Aw i am submissive in a good way that i know is right. Yes i will cook foods for him. Lol Thanks for reminding me yay! I like your sunglasses mr smiley! how cool is that! ahaha
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
Awww yes it differs to each individual. Nevertheless, there is this something that you could share that you would like us girls to know?/ Or just say added ideas about guys? I would be very pleased to hear that.
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@sriroshan (2585)
• India
31 Jan 13
Making your man happy is in your hand and the way I try to or make my man happy will be surely differ to other lady. Try to understand your man and accordingly base on the situation try to make your man happy.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
yes it varies to every individual i understand that. I just want o get some other ideas that could somehow help me . I know there is a unique idea of everyone. Just hoping they will share it here. Who knows i am not only the one who will benefit this, but also a lot of women who want their partners to be happy too.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Jan 13
Men sometimes are kids,i feel really happy when we found common habits and have leisure to do things.But do not force yourself to entertain him.While i think thus you can find true love and be real you,they need your happiness and compliment.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
yes absolutely, they have pleasures like kids. That is why when he wants to play and with his buddy i just say okay enjoy just dnt forget about me hahaa. Lol. I am not forcing myself in doing this , I am working the best out of being a girlfriend because i want him to be happy as i am happy seeing him happy with me. Hope you get my point sis!
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
31 Jan 13
To make a man happy it simply requires that you asked him what he wants from you. I mean are the things he likes his girlfriend to do and have. I have been wondering about that too a few months ago, what I did is, I searched on the internet for some tips. I tried to apply them and it actually worked. lol
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Thank you babyeve. That is someone upfront thing . I already tried that but he just answered me i am happy just to be with you dang! lol. He wont answer me directly so here i am gathering thoughts to ponder to apply. hahaa. I want to be the best gf he ever have wee!
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Oh, your boyfriend must be lucky. I am in a long distance relationship and I make him happy with my presence. He said, HE WAS HAPPY WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP but he will be more happy if I am at his side. From the time that we are together, we really spend time together and cherish every moments and every second that we together, it was precious. When I was with him, I have nothing in mind but to let him feel that I love him that much and there is no extra curricular activities involve, only him, him and his happiness.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Hello there kokomo. We are in the same shoes. I am in a long distance relationship too. That is why I want to know what can make man happy. I would like to do the things i cnt do when we are apart. Yes He should be the focused whenever he comes visit me , hehehe.. I pay so much effort and time for him. He as well makes me happy and pampered me too. I just want to give it back the best i can. That is the real essence of love i guess you are happy when you make your loveone happy. yay. ehee
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
hi there prettysexybrainy, i do love tight hugs before bedtime plus giving a good morning kiss on the forehead after my morning greetings. so i do always do these acts to the one i love. and not to mention any small gestures wherein i can show my sweetness. and though it is simple, yet it rocks.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Hi there aira did you get my reply on your msg in the inbox? Anyways, back to this thread. You are sweet, I do that as well when i have a chance to be with him. I like cuddling when just watching a movie, holding hands while walking, and just like being best of friends ever that shares laughter and joke lol.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
I think that the best that I can do to make my husband happy is to know that despite everything else, I am sticking with him. Well, we get to have some trials along the way, but after all of those in 18 years of being married, I think it has proved myself that he can rely on me to be with him our whole lifetime.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Aww you are the sweetest one jen! I know being married it is not easy too many issues that will come at your door. Nonetheless i salute you for being at the side of your hubby all this time. You are such an amazing one. These days so many couples break each others heart for some reasons that they cnt stand financial,cheating, love making and so fort problems. I know it needs a lifetime to know and appreciate someone. I am glad hearing your story you inspire me.mwah!
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
31 Jan 13
My husband loves LOVES that im silly! we've been together for almost 10 years and some of my goofyness is gone replaced by a kind-of-mature-ish kinda person... i do things for him that no other woman would dare to do. i do most of everything and anything he wants me to do. i really like you discussion about our other half! and to answer your question about that one thing or two that i really would like him to do for me is to ...help me more around the house every day.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
True, being silly and goofy can spice up your relationship not to be boring and serious all the time lol. Live who you really are with him. No Pretensions just the genuine you. If you are born to be goofy then lucky him. I would love to be with a goofy man so fun to be with but of course given that there are so serious times too hehe. Thank you vere for the nice response mwah!
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
31 Jan 13
Id say just be there for them, take care of them. id also say no one needs a book to tell them how to love. That my dear comes from your mind and heart... no book...
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Thank you maria, yes i do care for the one i love that is why i am aftering for his happiness too. wee! However books can have advises as well as you guys in here . I have read alot of books but of course that comes from a few author only . Mylot has lots of people who i can ask for opinions so it be it here too. I believe in gathering ideas and knowledge it will make me understand more the man side.
• China
30 Jan 13
I want to get a tight hug everyday, so that I receive the message of love;) I also want him to get to know something about my interests. I love music, and good handwriting. I think what I did that makes him happy is my trust to him, and my being there gives him a feeling of family. Oh when I acted in a cute, lovely way, he had big smiles. It's not pretentious act, it's what you can do to your man.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Thank you for letting me know sarah. Yes i can relate to that cute act. I guess it just comes out naturally when you are in love. The lil kid in you goes out. I love hugging and cuddling too. Glad that you are into music and writing you must be genius hehee. Lucky sweetheart of yours for sure he receive lots of poem and love notes from you . Sweet one.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Almost all man love to be cooked. They also want their woman to care for him in everything. You must be honest. And some man loves woman who has a strong personality.
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Thank you Gwapa! yes you are definitely right bout that. Number 1 trait of a woman that they are looking for is, having that unshakable faith. They are just so glued with that character of a woman. I guess they long to have a partner in life that can still stand even when problem comes their way. About the food thing i am working on that part, hahaa I am not really into cooking as i dnt have much time to experiment lol, but for sure I will love to do that when i have ample time. Mwah thanks thanks