Your true love with your best friend
By silverfox09
@silverfox09 (4708)
United States
January 31, 2013 8:02pm CST
I believe one of the best element of love is being friends . When you are best friends you are not afraid of being weird , goofy , laugh out loud , you are comfortable with that person .
You dont want to go a day without seeing that person talking to them seeing their smile . All your future dreams and goals involved them and they are their supporting you every step of the way . When you are over 80 and tired , you can still be happy and hold hands and laugh you @ss off because you are with you best friend and soul mate
there is never a dull moment especially when you both have a good sense of humor.
That is how I feel about my fiance , every day is like a taste of paradise . Some may call it "youthful enthusiasm" but I called it love and passion .
If you dont have that feeling just believe and be open to it . Love comes to those who believe 
there is never a dull moment especially when you both have a good sense of humor.
That is how I feel about my fiance , every day is like a taste of paradise . Some may call it "youthful enthusiasm" but I called it love and passion .
If you dont have that feeling just believe and be open to it . Love comes to those who believe 1 person likes this
9 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
I have these feelings for my boyfriend now. There's never a dull day when he is around. I am not the kind who is head over heels over a guy, I don't show him that I love him, but he knows I do.
We have been together for 5 years and we are still happy. the future might be a little vague, but we look forward to it. We are both working on it and we appreciate the now. Whatever trials we face, we will not back down from it.
It helps since we are both insane, we have similar interests and sense of humor. We are like best friends and we don't keep secrets from each other.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Feb 13
Yes face all your trials together , I have been through quite a few too . Continue to be honest and supportive of each other and there will be no problem that is too great for you both .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Feb 13
LOl
Moving from the friend zone to the couple zone , with lots of other people trying to pull us in opposite direction . We simple just avoid people that dont respect our decision . They keep trying to say you are too young to be serious and thinking about marriage but we didnt care we made it very clear.
I remember a girl asking me if I know how to be a wife I turn and ask her if there was a written test about being a wife? because I may have miss that memo .
We know and love the good and bad quality of each other , someone that know your soul , you can never go wrong with a partner like that. We can lean on each other and we never put any one above each other .
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
I think that the best relationship ever made is between real good friends. And I totally agree with you.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Feb 13
Thanks Jenny
The bond between Friends is very solid foundation for love because you already know the worse about the person and you love and accepted all their flaws .
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Feb 13
That is exactly how I feel about love and am glad that my wife is my best friend. I would love to spend many of my lives with her
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Feb 13
Hey Sid
I am happy you are sharing your life with your wife and best friend. Wish you both many more happy years and memories .
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Feb 13
I can feel that somebody here is really much in love, he he.
Well, I am happy for you silverfox. I believe that you will have a lasting relationship with your fiance.
Have a nice day!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Feb 13
Thank you Aries
Sometime you feel you you just want to say it loud lol and mylot is the perfect place to share it .
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
1 Feb 13
As for me I do not have those feeling till now,may be I am not younger any more,I always have less enthusiasm for something people carzy for them.
May be I really need a girlfriend and get back to the normal life.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Feb 13
Really never had those feeling ? are you just not interested in those at the moment and focusing on something else ?
There are things that can cause us to lose hope because the world is full of tricky and deceitful people, but we have to take the good with the bad and learn from each .
@prettysexybrainy (189)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
yes that should be. No pretentious whenever you are with him. You are just unbound what to do with any stuff together. That is so cool to have in a relationship. I am blessed he is a bestfriend at the same time, I could talk anything under the sun and the moon.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Feb 13
I know what you mean , whenever you are best friends with your partner you can talk about so much and nothing at the same time . Some times other people would just wonder what you laughing about lol .
I am happy for you
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
Yes I do believe even we been a part for almost 25 years and have a separate lives we still believe that we have a true love in the future. We don't know when its going to be happen but we have faith in our love that someday we will be happy together.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Feb 13
I agree , even if you should ever part , you will find your way back to each other but everything start with a little hope/faith .
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
1 Feb 13
When I was young, I was dreaming to be with the most beautiful girl in the world, but do we have common interest, or do we really like each other? I never thought about those elements. After several failure relationship, I truly realize what is true love, and it doesn't have to be the most beautiful girl in the world. You are right, someone who can share your laugh and your sadness, and someone you can rely on and be able to talk to is your real soul mate, and the best friend of your lifetime. I am still in searching for that person.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Feb 13
I know what you mean , I have been there too lol ... At my first school , I wanted the guy every girl like and I was never myself , while my true love was waiting out there for me .
Having that person that is there through the good and bad , but as you said we sometimes never though of that .
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
I like what you have said, "love comes to those who believe." Even Jesus showed miracles to those who believe but to those who did not believe he did not make any miracles and went away from them. It is tru too that the best element of love is being friends. Friends accept us and believe on us that is where love enters. THanks for this.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Feb 13
Agree even Jesus show that is his work , we sometimes just need a little faith . It may seems like its rare but is still out there waiting for us .
