..I get tensed whenever my parents are unwell..
By subhojit10
@subhojit10 (7375)
India
February 2, 2013 8:46am CST
hey guys, every time my parents are unwell i get tensed and worried and gets confused as to what to do so that they get back to their normal health as soon as possible.
Very recently my dad got a terrible cold and was having a severe soar throat due to which he was unable to speak properly. I was terribly tensed and was constantly asking him to take medicines or accompany me to go to a doctor but every time he used to say that he wont go to a doctor or take medicines as he will get alright after some time. Now that he is alright i am very much happy and i always pray God every day that they stay healthy happy and safe and give away all of their pains and problems in their lives on my head as i cannot see them in pain.
What are your thoughts on this? Please do share your thoughts!
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10 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
Who wouldn't be, right? i have actually made a discussion regarding my mom's condition just over a week ago. And really, when I heard that she was sent to the ER in the early morning of that weekend, I was really going crazy inside. I was crying. I had to go to the supermarket prior to visiting her and I was sort of floating while I was inside the supermarket. It was like half of me would just want to run home and check on my mom. Good thing she was feeling better when I came over. I guess she just needed a lot of rest and to take extra caution with the food that she eats.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
She is actually doing great. And I thank God that she was not confined in the hospital for that incident. I just always get teary-eyed thinking about them. I would wish sometimes that I remained a kid forever so that they'd stay to be young forever as well.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
6 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for sharing your valuable response again. Well i am happy to hear that she is doing great now and i think she need not to worry anymore as u are with her all the time. i can understand your feelings very well, u cannot see your mother confined in a hospital and even i feel the same. it really touched my heart when you said that u did remain a kid forever.
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@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Well i can understand your situation and any one would have reacted the same also. It is our love care and affection towards our parents that keeps us possessive about them so that whenever they feel lonely or sick we are there by their side. I hope your mother is doing well now and i am sure with children like u around, parents need not to fear anything.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
18 Feb 13
Dear friend,
It is really a emotional pain when parents become unwell. Moreover, it is also nice and happy to see them happy in their life. I feel it is the childern duty to take care of them. Moroeve your parents are lucky to get a son like you. I am sure their care and love is major part in your life. 
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
18 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for sharing your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, i do get emotional whenever i see them in pain as i always aspire to see them smiling and in happiness. I wish they spend their lives like a king always. I have always done my duties as a son and i hope i would continue to do the same in the future as well.
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
3 Feb 13
everyone does and the inner mental effect is still more and we cant even think properly and we tend to really get irritated and also more over annoyed so much
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Yes u are right, it is pretty obvious to become tensed and worried about my parents as they were not doing well since days. We all love our parents very much and that is the reason why we can never see them suffer in any way. Even i hope that they stay healthy safe cheerful and jolly minded so that they do not feel left out in any situation.
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@heeren (14)
• India
3 Feb 13
Yes we also feel worried when our parents got unhealthy we used to give him more vitamins so that they remain healthy and fit I also get worried when my parents got unhealthy this is because we love our parents very much they stand before us when we are unhealthy and they take so much care about us so we can say that our parents is like god in our life...!!!!
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. yeah i agree to your point that it is quite obvious to get worried about our parents since we love them the most in this whole world. we cannot see them in distress or in any bad situation as it would hurt and pain us the most. so we have to take care of them properly and make them feel special all the time.
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@heeren (14)
• India
3 Feb 13
Yes we also feel worried when our parents got unhealthy we used to give him more vitamins so that they remain healthy and fit I am also get worried when my parents got unhealthy this is because we love our parents very much they stand before us when we are unhealthy and they take so much care about us they remain near us when we are unhealthy we can that our parents is our god...!!!
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, we all love our parents very much and that is the reason why we can never see them in pain or in any untoward situation. So we have to be there by their side always so that they never feel left out in their lives. So even i am planning to advise them to take medicines and vitamins that will help them stay healthy.
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@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
3 Feb 13
It shows that your are a good boy,and actually every filial boys and girls will have the same feeling with you.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Well yes i know every children who love care and affection their parents more than their life can relate this situation with themselves as we all consider our parents to have a position greater than the Almighty in our society. So we need to take good care of themselves so that they always remain healthy safe and sound.
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@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. yes u are right i will have to think of such things that will help them fight illness otherwise they would get prone to various diseases easily. i need to think about it very hard and act strongly so that i can never see them in pain and anguish.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
2 Feb 13
As children, the best thing that we can do for them to be always in good health condition is to make them happy all the time. Don't make feel bad about anything and see to it that we follow whatever they want.
Hard? That must be. Because one reason that parents got sick is when their children are doing things that would make them feel bad.
Have a nice day!
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, we should always try our level best to keep our parents happy and cheerful as much as possible. This is because they have sacrificed so many things in order to groom us. So we should not do any such activities in our lives that will force them to be tensed and worried for us.
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@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
I have the same feelings too when my parents are sick. My dad has sickness in liver and my mom has diabetes. They have maintaining medicines. I'm quite worried with them. Now, they are cautious on foods they eat and take medicines. Sometimes I get tense too.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. I am glad to hear that even u feel the same like me whenever our parents get sick. I hope your parents are taking their medicines on time and since they have a responsible child in the form of you they need not to get worried. It is pretty obvious to get worried at times so u see to it that they maintain a good regime.
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@Jessie086 (36)
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2 Feb 13
You are an obedient boy.If I was your mother, I would feel very happy. Actually you don't need to worry that much, its the order of nature people get sick and recover in couple of days. Don't be so sentimental. The best gift for parents is take good care of yourself. I'm a mother now. All I wish is my son keep happy and health. I even wish I was he when he sufurred from pain.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Well yes u are absolutely right, i am being more sentimental and possessive about my parents but ma'm i cannot resist myself from being the same as i love them very much. I know as a mother even u would be always expecting good for your children so that they always stay happy and cheerful under your watchful eyes.
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