In my life, there's heartache and pain....

I am one of those who forget the happy side of life by living in the pain.

Yes it is the most right thing to do because those happy moments are good to remember and it bring us good health also happy daily life. Well we cant deny that sad memories not easily fade to us especially if this gives us the most painful experience through entire life. It was really hard to forget if experience sadness. It is always play to our subconscious mind like music but not good to our health coz it ruins our daily happy life. I always tell to my family and to others to be positive thinker.. it create good vibes that helps us to be healthy and do good work everyday. Being positive is always good to our mind. It works good and decides the right thing to do. So we cannot do good decisions if we are always remain to heartaches and live in pain. Life is good and short so why we cannot spend it rightfully. lets be happy all the time and be a positive thinker all the time. have a happy day friends!

hi airasheila.. i would agree with you on this, i have had several experiences with my ex as well that i have not forgotten and would remember from time to time. i think it is common for all of us. we all have our memories with us and when we see things we can often associate a person to what we are seeing, and we tend to remember them.

We can all do that, remember the happy moments... But we cannot also just forget the heartaches and pains life or people gave us. Sometimes no matter how much we set aside and bury those sad memories, it still finds it way to our mind. We sometimes just find ourselves lost with those thoughts. And only when we realized we have been taken back to such bad times will we wake ourselves up and try to reminisce about the happy times.

Sometimes some people are immature to know what pains and heartaches bring to one person. Probably they haven't experience in their lives yet. And some are just insensitive too. It really depends on the character and personality of a person how he will handle pains and to some it is just something that is why they can easily remember those things. Some people didn't mean anything either in remembering those things because they are tactless. Don't take it seriously for it will affect you. Focus on taking care of yourself and your health too and focus on to some important goals in your life not on those people who hurt you.

In normal practice, a person needs more and more in life and every achievement/ happy moments etc. boosts him to find for more. In search of finding more and more happiness, he encounters unhappy moments in his path and feels as if everything stopped in his life. Good things are suppressed by need for more attitude. Similarly bad happening can also be suppressed by some worst happenings around you. I have experienced, it take around 72 hrs. to forget a bad happening and our brain orders us to move forward. lol ... when there is a heart, there will be heartache too, its a good sign to confirm that your heart is still in healthy state. So never mind if it is suffering for a little time. Enjoy!

Some people have more sad times than they do happy times and I feel that is why people can not think of any good things that have happened in their life.I am the same, there have been more sad times than happy times in my life and life is like a roller coaster, ups and downs all the time, no matter what you do in life.

sometimes it is easier to remember the heartache and pain that we feel than to remember the times of ppiness and joy. some emotions deeper. the road of life does not always run smooth and even. there are going to be bumps along the way.

hi, heartache and pain is part of our life to enjoy it,we should feel them once and learn from it to make us more stronger in the future,and its unavoidable to remember those sad moments we experienced in our life,especially if this pain still in our heart,and the result of it will make us weak.

Sometimes it is more easy to remember the sad side of our life than the happy side because sometimes our life is more of pains than laughter . How can remember happiness when it seldom visited us and it is this sadness which lives with us . That is why sometimes you will see a person who seldom smile and laugh , it's because she already forgets what is happiness. When we can bump into this kind of personality , let us not judge them but instead let us understand and accept them with our whole heart.

For me, I think we must weigh happy and sad moments in balance. I mean, we reminisce sad moments but take it as a challenge for us. Even if we suffered a lot of pain before and it hurts us when we are about to remember it, just stay positive that we had gone through that kind of pain because we need to learn something on that. We should still think for its positive side why did it happened to us. And for happy moments, we should take it as our inspiration and as a reflection of life that despite all those pain we still need to smile and enjoy life.

You don't necessarily need to forget the heartaches and pains for in them we find our lessons in life. Let's face it---life will never be filled with happy moments. The important thing is how we re-act to life's challenges.