He never learn HE is still evil
By fearlessgara
@fearlessgara (1113)
Philippines
February 3, 2013 10:39pm CST
I don't know the purpose of God that I myself become a relative of this person.He have committed so many mistakes in life. He killed many lives for no reason, He was under drugs,Molest his own daughters and he get put in prison. Now He was given amnesty and living with us since he has no one who will accept him because no one do trust him already. He is a good joker the way he talked you will think that he is a good man. unless you found what he have done at your back.My brother in law help him to get a good job here.But when He started to work.He is one of the reason why my brother in law loss job .For him To stay in the company. He is like Judas that even how good you are to him as long as there are situation that will benefit him He will not consider your kindness and he will still do evil against you for his own sake.I also caught him that he is the one who give my number to their superior because He is the only one who knows my number using my computer. He is like demon. What shall I do. we are living in one house It's my aunt house. and we have different room here. wE cannot move to other house for as for now we can't afford to rent.
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7 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
4 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation very well and i think u need to stay alert and alarmed every time otherwise his intentions might just go against u. I know u cannot avoid him but u should allow him to create any circumstances that might put u and your entire family into any kind of trouble.
What say?
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@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Yes that's right I am now alert and aware in all aspects with regards to them. Now, that I proved that he never changed.and glad that I always remember what God had said that never revenge.BUT i do put some distance between us now. Although I am still continue doing good to him I put the judgement unto God.I strongly believe in karma.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Your options are either to stay and be extra careful or leave the house. Just let everyone be aware of all his actions. You do not know what really is in his mind. He might be thinking of some form of revenge on people, we don;t even know if he is still in his right mind. But once you sense danger, call the cops.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
thanks jenny. extra careful is my option right now. Now I am telling this also to my mother my sister all my idea and they too found out what He have done against us. Except for my aunt and the rest of people whom He pretend to be kind .I am not really able to hold his mind and only 'Prayer'
is my hope for Him to change.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Who decides in your household? If he is only accepted to live in your place, then i think he should comply and does not cause everyone to be losing their jobs, and to lack confidence in the safety of their own home. I always believe that everyone deserves a second chance, but then again we cannot be fake and pretend not to worry at all given his background and what he has done in his life before.
I wonder where his family are right now? And i think he should really try put his place at your home, he is there for a favor, does he even share with the expenses? I bet not, right?
Its hard to be with someone / relative or friend in your home who's causing you to want to always watch your back.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
His family his second wife lived with another man .she Left him when he get jailed same as his first wife. For he was not a good husband too. My aunt is the one who decides in our household. he doesn't share expenses now he has no job for he left that job too since he haven't given what he want which is to work in my brother-in-law place of duty. and He is afraid of him and also do tolerate him.tHANKS for your suggestion yyes, I should stay alert always.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
4 Feb 13
Dear friend,
Some people character is too difficult to change and on other side those who want to make one a good person whould be wasting their time and also gets blames. I feel he has to be avoided from the place he tends to be dangerous to others. May be he needs to shown the bitter side of peole who lives in a bitter world than him, take him to those hungry poor who do not have food, shelter, clothers let him see them feel their pain, take him to those who do not have parents, orphans, patients in critical stages, living life in worse conditions, people fell into diseases, take him to those places where other people live in a bitter life. Give him the job to service those people whose life is miserable....hope he my change.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. yes that works really to some other people but for him He knew that kind of life he have been imprisoned for 5 years.He feel much worser than those people.I don't know if this person still have conscience .He always entertain evilness in his heart.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
I wonder why you guys kept him all this time. I won't regret banishing him from my home. I don't want a person like that any where near me. I won't compromise my life and everyone else's just for his sake. He doesn't deserve it.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
because they are afraid of him.HE kills.and before when they have a fight before he got jailed He attempted to kill them.and he kills like he is killing animals.that's why no one in his father side(as my mother and aunt is only half sister of him i mother side)Like his father who used to be a killer too. Sometimes I don't know if it
's ruin in their genes. his brother's in his father side do kill too and they are hiding now. so that's why he haven't someone to stay but to us. My aunt do tolerate him .
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
4 Feb 13
What a terrible person!
Sometimes I think the amnesty only suitable for the political criminals,in your case that man should not be amnesty since the terrible things he had made.
You said you can not move out the house since you can not afford to rent,but there is something I have to remind you,which is more important?Your life or your money?I still insist that you should move out and keep away from him.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
I really prayed That God will be given me opportunity to be capable to do that.that is another good option I think So I can have peaceful mind.If only I can afford Even they are my family I will stay away with them. so I will not be surrounded with negative aura here in this house. It's hard to live with a traitor most especially if its your relative.
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
4 Feb 13
Maybe you should report him to the police or just really get away from this person. There's no harmony living with this person under on roof no matter what goodness and kindness you give to him, he's hopeless. It's dangerous to be with him once he will be back to his vices.
