Dont let problems and struggles be a hindrance and stop us to continue our life.
By ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
Philippines
February 11, 2013 7:35pm CST
Life is a journey that we have to take. A journey that we dont know whats gonna happened along the way. We could meet some people, we could achieve some things and even face some struggles during our life's journey.
Struggles and problems will always be there as if there is no end. Some are easy to resolve and there are also some that are so hard to face that sometimes result to failure.
Some did give up, got depressed after the failure and even lose hope to continue in life. But we have to fight to continue our journey, be positive, hopeful, be thankful for the blessings that we have and make it as inspiration and motivation to go on in life. Giving up should not be an option. Help from other our love ones will be always be there, but we have to help ourselves as well.
We only have one life to live so we have to enjoy it, live it and be thankful for it no matter how hard life could it be.
11 responses
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
13 Feb 13
Problems in life will always arise. We just have to find a way to realise and over come. Even though sometimes we don't want to live the way we are sometimes we do not hav ea choice. All Wwe can do is take steps to make our lives bettter.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yes we always have to try our best to find ways how to resolve it. In the end it could make us a better individuals and at the same time learned from it as well. We have to take a step and stood up instead of dwelling with it cause there will be good solutions if we do that. We have to believe in ourselves and go on in life.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
14 Feb 13
Thanks for the encouraging words and the tips. Over coming anything in life should be a victory for us even the small things.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Feb 13
Problems are accompanied by every individual since our birth. Every problem have their own solutions. To solve the problem we should find the right solution. We should not allow our problems not being solve for several days of months. We should face every problem we encounter along the way in our life journey. If we learn to be strong and fixed all things right, sooner or later your will laugh your problem.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Feb 13
In every problem we can solve, we felt satisfaction and relieve. It seems you conquer the whole world if you can solve your serious problem. It's our companion to have problems that God knows we can solve it. He won't give us problem that we can't find a solution. He knows better on ourselves
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
It is important that we always learned in any problems that we are facing which can makes us a better individual and stronger human beings.This problems teach us to survive in life and to continue our journey as well so we really to do our best in resolving it rather just thinking of giving up.It is really easy to just saying it but we still have to give it a try.
@giggles721 (275)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
This is an inspiring message and thank you ardoy for posting it. Most people would discuss about negativity in their life (like me) and seldom about the positiveness. Have a beautiful day!
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Oh thank you for appreciating it.Negativity in life will be always there wherein we have to fight for instead of dwelling with it.We could not get rid of it right away but we have to try and do our best to change it into positivity which is better.Start it with a smile and positive outlook that everything will be fine in the end.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
12 Feb 13
As long as we continue to live here on earth, there will always be problems and troubles. It may come in different forms and involve different people. But as we grow older and wiser, we will learn to rise above these trying times and be true to ourselves. Besides, we need not face them alone. We have our family and friends who are very much willing to help us if we are willing to help ourselves.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yes facing alone our problem is not recommended since that there are some problems that we cant resolve alone and need the help of our family and love ones. Asking help from others will not lessen of being who we are cause sometimes dwelling with it alone could sometimes worsen the problem.
@jirojoyman (458)
• Indonesia
12 Feb 13
yeah that was right, don't even give up caused of many problems in your life...,we must continue to survive our life...,life is full of sacrifice...,that is the important thing we must to realized...,if you wanna get a better life so don't be lazy and spoilled your self and you must sacrifice with your time your mind etc.....,
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Giving up is not an option. We have to fight and do our best to survive.We have to work hard to have a better life that we wanted.Life is not perfect and always have problems along the way that we have face and to fight forthen after that it is all worth it and succeed is sweet.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 13
life without problem and challenge is boring and this can't let us grow to wiser and smarter.
i would take the pressure as to enjoy it and relax focus the solution
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yeah life with it is boring and quiet yet there are some who dont like it and even dont fight it and just dwell with it. These problems made us stronger us a person so we have to give our best to overcome it. There will be times that we cant solve at once or twice so we still have to keep on trying cause giving up is not an option.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 13
in life we alway bump into problem, when thing can't solve just why not take a break first and refresh it back. wheen you back you see different kind of thing, you will say ohhhhhhhhhhh i remember as I did have experience it before or it easy to settle it or just call you friend in the same inductry/parent/anyone. ask them how their solve it, life is short and other people may bump the same problem as you do and they have solve it.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
12 Feb 13
it is easier said than done. some people are going through some really rough times. it's not easy to tell people how to handle their struggles. people deal with misfortune their own way. when we are feeling down, the last thing we need to hear is how much longer we have to go on and keep fighting.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yes it is easy to be said than to be done but somehow telling it and thinking about it could help somehow and even a great start to overcome this problems. Support from other people around us even moral or physical could help and mean a lot for us to fight and go on in life.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
I totally agree with you. But a person who is so much in pain could not easily get out of that "darkness" right away. Coz sometimes, eventhough how hard we try in telling people that we know who is in such situation, they will not easily step out of it. They have to learn to accept that these things happen and it has happened to them. And once they have accepted it, then he could easily let go.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Yes it could be hard to go out at first but have to try and try to go out in it and dont just dwell on it for a long period of time. Accepting is a great way to move on in life and a way to learn how to resolve it.
@govenu (90)
• India
12 Feb 13
Yeah, I completely agree with your post and yes, whatever it is , the show has to go on and our life has to move on. We cannot just get stuck somewhere in the middle. We need to live the life to the fullest and make the people around us as happy as we can. i know it is all easy to explain and write it down than to do it. but then, once we start doing it, we learn to live life in a better way and learn to look at only the bright sides of the life and live happily.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
Yeah indeed it is easy to said than to do it but as we think about it and said it, I guess its a good start to do it. Sometimes we just dwell in to our problems thats why we dont about the solutions that we could do. I know that is easy to said and hard to do buy we still have to try and give it a shot. We will never know whats gonna happened if we dont try and give our best. Its okay if we failed few times but at least we try and we are always have chances to do it again until we succeed.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
13 Feb 13
Oh thanks as well for appreciating it and nice to know that it made your day as you have said.
We really have to live our life no matter how hard it is. Giving up is not an option and always give our best.
@mondaylover (183)
• Poland
12 Feb 13
I like the optimistic message in your post. It might be too idealistic but at lest it's something positive. There are horrible things that we can encounter in our lives and most of us sooner or later will have some bad experiences but life is not all about that sad or scary moments. The moments of happiness are equally important if not the most important experiences in our lives. Thanks for reminding ardoy0731.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
Your welcome and thank you as well for appreciating my post. We really have to be optimistic and look forward that we will have a better future ahead of us. We cant avoid problems and struggles in life cause its part otlf it and life would be boring without it. There are some that are so easy yet there are still some that are so hard as if there is no solution at all and even thinking to give up. Inside of thinking of giving up, lets try and keep on finding ways how to resolve it.
