I miss my mother so much

i live from my hometown but not so far but its 30 minutes travel by plane, and 14 hours travel by land and sea. but my mother live nearby, whenever me and my kids misses granda, like today, we visit her.

Hi, Life is such that where there is no certainity. We don't even know what will happen after an hour also. But 'hope' & expectations persuade us to live long and we make plans for 10 years 20 years and so on. Yes, I know you missed a lot when you moved into the diversions of life and this is what life is. When we get new things, we may lose some thing. Here now we all are in an advanced world and we can make things much better as compared to earlier times. I know little bit about your life from yoru words and I still have the hope that you can be much better if you react to the situations little more carefully and positively. First of all, you need to call up your h/b for an open discussion and talk everything whatever you want to speak and find what is his opinion. Ask him to provide arrangements to go to home town and meet your dear ones. Mom is the only God that we have visible around and no one can deny the rights to meet her. So, you need to speak with yoru h/b and ask him to make financial assistance and the rest of the things. You can make calls, meet on fb, or computer video chat etc. can be done to keep in touch with them. Anyway, as long as I have not clue about where you are now and where you originally belongs, I cannot talk much on this. Hope you still enjoying the life and the difference around.

I have never lived far from home (home is where my parents and family are). I say this because we have moved a lot of times during my college days and even to now. I'd say since we live in manila and just transfers cities, there were no huge adjustments to be made because there were no cultural differences... plus when we move, the whole family moves. I think when i have to move out and be on my own, i will still live next to may mother. haha I mean i do not think i can leave her with someone else... my brothers are not to be the type to always stay at home and be with her so i'd think she really does need me by her side. Right now, we live together and so i do not really miss her that much he he As i see her everyday. I hope you would be able to go home when you are free, cheers and have a great day.

I'm sorry to hear that you are very lonely at this time in your life. I hope that things will improve for you and that you will be able to see your mother soon. I don't live that far from my family but I can understand what you mean. When we get married we often times feel that this will solve a lot of things and make us happy in so many different ways, but often more times than not their is some type of sacrifice that we make to in order to stay with our spouse.

I also miss my mother, actually my family for I now live thousands of miles away from them. 22 hours of plane ride to be exact. I just got married and moved to my husband's country. But thank goodness for internet and technology, we always keep in touch. We do not have to spend hundreds just to be able to call and text because lots of applications has made communicating with them cheaper and faster. I do plan to visit them when I have settled down here. I am still adjusting, seeing as I have been here for only 2 months.

Hi extremefun4fun that is all life is about. When you are growing up in a family you are attached emotionally to everyone in the family, not only your relations but also the pets you may be having. But when it comes to making your career you have to make certain harsh decisions, may be you have to leave away from your family. But what I feel is now-a-days, the world has become so small due to technological developments. You can be in touch with them on a regular basis via skype and such things. It was not the case probably 10-15 years ago. Yes I do agree you miss many things like language and culture.

I love my mother very much . She is my best friend . I love her & I quarreled with mother . Now I am married & I miss her very much.

actually my parents and i only lived in one place in the city but the sad here is we never see each other everyday,sometimes once week and sometimes twice a month only,of course i still missing them,i am just thankful because going to their house is just one ride only from the house where i stay.

Well, I live in a situation diametrically opposed than yours. This in the sense that I find myself at the ripe age of almost 38 years, still out of work (which is nowadays very serious!), Still alive and employed by mom and dad and my younger brother. As a result, however, even if we are united, there are problems of living together. These mostly my parents raise them themselves that they would like us kids, we were already settled with the work and also to sentimental level. But after all, at moment for us, this thing is a utopia! We all, hope in the future much better!

Stay away from the mother and the family is sad ..We certainly miss them all, missed by all of the circumstances and the atmosphere in our home .. My advice, try to busy myself with something positive so as not to get carried away ..While waiting for the time to come together again with her ??mother and family .. thanks