What will you do if the only man that you love is unfortunately married?

Philippines
February 25, 2013 10:15pm CST
Just need some comments :)
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@violann (436)
• United States
26 Feb 13
I wouldn't bother with him. If you were suppose to be with him then you would've meant him first. Never mess with a married man or woman.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
I have been through that situation. And all I can say is that I made myself believe that I would be happy with him even if he would not commit to me coz of his family. Nut that was what I thought. Coz as the days passed, I felt in love more and more and that i wanted to be with him always. Not really wanting him to turn away from his fatherly duties, but to leave his wife. It was the most complicated situation I have been and I am just happy that it is all over now.
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Hi, thank you for your comment. But its different from your situation, the guy was separated a long time ago before he met the girl :)
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
Does the guy know that this girl is really in love with him? Or does the guy have the intentions of making one step ahead than just being boyfriend-girlfriend? What is their current status?
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
I won't do anything else but forget him. I can't be a home-wrecker in whatever circumstances. And besides, it would be too selfish of me to consider only myself in that case. If the man has a family then he has no more right to find another. He should rather just concentrate with his family. I can't be a mistress. Broken homes are not what I desire so how could I allow myself to be an instrument in breaking a home?
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Thank you for responding!
• Indonesia
26 Feb 13
will get over him. If he is married I would never think to give my heart to him and hurt his wife. I will break if other girl come into my marriage and take my husband from me, that is what his wife would feel if I take her husband.
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
thank you!
• India
26 Feb 13
I will leave him or just I will change that feeling for him to be just a good friend of mine but I think I will leave him as I can not go through breaking one marriage life.
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Thank you for your comment. But the man is separated a long time ago before he met the girl. So the girl didn't broke his marriage life.
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
If it not yours, give it back to the right owner. God's 9th commandment, 'thou shalt not covet thy neighbors wife'. And putting yourself in the wife's shoe, how do you feel? What did Jesus told to the adulterous woman, "no one condemn you,so do I, go and never to do it again". Do you like to mark as one? NEVER TRY, its hard to get out and if you want to get out,the stain will stay. search you heart to God, seek him, 'seek the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all this things shall be added unto you.' If the man is truly in love with you, he will not deceived you by a promise that will not come true. NEVER give yourself, for a price of suffering and pain. GOD'S LOVE AND GOD love all those who follow his commandments, and you know the guarantee of eternal life and the Kingdom of God. Its a one way ticket to your future, if you love yourself and the family you will create, make it the ONE bless by God.
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
thank you!
@violann (436)
• United States
1 Mar 13
donot ever give your heart to a married man
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
26 Feb 13
This is really heartbreaking.Therefore i'll know whether he already got married before i fall in love.It's not your fault to feel like loving him,but you can really stop your feeling after knowing this is not right,isn't it?Hopefully get more ideas from mylotters.
@BabyCheetah (1911)
• Australia
26 Feb 13
Don't mess with that situation, trust me it's not nice to be on the recieving end and have a partner cheat on you. I'd recommend trying to let go and move on. Find someone else who is available, who knows you just might find someone better
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
But what if, he was separated for about 5yrs. ago and going to file an annulment?