He cant get rid of the crazy woman
By silverfox09
@silverfox09 (4708)
United States
February 28, 2013 5:54pm CST
So the update on the older woman that was dating my family member . I mention she was crazy but I found out today that she is really mentally Ill .
She started to stay with him on weekends then she move in by herself now he cant get her to leave lol ... She refuse to leave him home from last November. She is like 10 years older than us and she is driving him nuts .
He found out she is really mental and she was on medication her family members hate her and dont want her at their house. He call police on her and they wont do anything ...
She is nesting and no one will help him now , he made his bed .
Also there is no mental asylum for people in the island anymore.
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9 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
wow, thats kinda scarry to me. has he talked to cops about this? if he hasnt he should. before she does something.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Mar 13
He say he call them but they wont do anything because her family dont want her and the place she used to lived with her sister, the sister moved and she say she dont want he living with her . That is how he found out that she needs medication but she wont take them .
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
Oh man thats bad, what in the world is he going to do now? When she came there didnt he know she was crazy?
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Mar 13
No he did not know she was crazy to the point of being on medication . She upset a lot of people but he though that was just her personality .
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
That could be a problem. It is hard to push her outside of his home without having a manic attack. So he must just make sure that she takes all the medicine necessary to keep her in her best behavior at all times. But of course, I know that you all still wish that she vanishes in oblivion!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Mar 13
Lol he didnt know she was crazy , until she moved her things in without him asking her to move in , he just went home and see her . Then he said he loved her but thats before she start calling his mother and family and trying to fight with them .
She call his mother and tell her "she is going to die" , that was the last straw . so he broke up with her and tell her to moved out and she refuse and still there 
, I dindt know all that drama was taking place until toady .
Yup I would hope she vanish because she keep calling my phone too and he say she stole my number from his phone and all the others.
, I dindt know all that drama was taking place until toady .
Yup I would hope she vanish because she keep calling my phone too and he say she stole my number from his phone and all the others.@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Mar 13
I will was planning on getting a new number but she might get that one also . So I may have to take your advice if I cant block her calls .
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
If she really becomes a nuisance, maybe you could file a case against her---trespassing or illegal settling! hahhaha!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
3 Mar 13
Well, like others have stated, it does have to be their decision if they are going to kick this person out, or continue to let them live them. Maybe even though she is driving him nuts, there is something more there, or he does not want to put anyone out on the streets with no where to go. But if she was really Bad, you would think somehow you could get her some help and then breathe a sigh of relief because she is gone?
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
4 Mar 13
I dont know what is going through is mind , I am just happy I dont have to deal with her ever . I think because she was once his girlfriend even when everyone was saying she was crazy he always defend her .
What shock me is when he admits to us that she is now driving him crazy and all the people around him . I feel he dont want to put her on the street since she have no where to go even though he have gave her enough money that could rent somewhere for at least 5 months but maybe he want to take care of her since none of her family member want her around .
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Mar 13
Okay, did you talk to your family member if he really wants her out of the housee? why do i feel that somehow she is a bit wanted in the house in the first place? hehe if she is mentally ill, how were you able to confirm this? Please know that you have to be careful when with her especially that you all might now know what she is thinking about especially if her mental or mind health is not stable.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
4 Mar 13
I talk to him and he said he want her out but she wont leave . They were dating and I dont know he just said she moved in when he was not home .
I did not confirm she was mentally ill , her family member told the guy she is mental ill and maybe show him something and her behavior is enough proof for the rest of us .
Yes you have to be careful around people like that but I dont believe he is doing as much as he say .
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
1 Mar 13
Well, I utmost respect for the mentally unstable (and I am one of those. Anyway my case has already been explained in various threads), but still I do not think will can make a man prisoner!
She no doubt has to be an curated, For a man indeed has the right to live his life in peace.
I do not believe that this man is able to take care of this woman. You said yourself that she is doing to him literally crazy!
Any solution at hand about this problem?
I do not think this situation can and should last a long time!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Mar 13
He will have to do something and be serious has it may get out of hand . Yup she is taking him prisoner , he is planning on leaving his house since he cannot get her to leave .
Thank you for responding
@Phatkat69 (5)
• United States
1 Mar 13
Well I would have to say go along with her and trick her into thinking its her idea to move out.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
28 Feb 13
maybe he doesn't want to get rid of her. maybe, he LIKES the drama? he could control the situation if he wanted to.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Mar 13
That is how I feel also he keep saying he want her to leave but he is not doing as much as he may be pretending . I think he may be one of those that get his kicks from drama .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
1 Mar 13
I also dont think he is trying hard enough , he keep saying the police wont do anything . All his neighbor now hate him because when he is not home she would go around calling them names so no one is willing to help him now ...
We keep telling him to take care of things before it get any worse . Its not healthy and I cant tell what people may do when they cant take things anymore but no one is willing to get in the middle of them because he was warned by some in the beginning .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Mar 13
Hey claimed the police wont do anything because she is a woman and she have no where to go . I dont know if he is telling the truth about trying hard enough to get her to leave but everyone is just trying to stay out of his affairs since he didnt listen to them .
