A housewife or an employed woman

@giex22 (273)
Cebu, Philippines
March 2, 2013 10:57pm CST
Now a days there are newly married couple, and that if time comes they will bear a child and taking good care of them. But, as of taking good care of their children it comes sometimes that the husband will tell that you will be the one who will company your child in short a housewife. Would you ever discuss it to your husband that you want to work on your field and not just by coming a housewife?
5 responses
@yugocean (9965)
• India
3 Mar 13
This is not important to remain a housewife, an employed woman is sure a good choice, but for a child, only mother is everything, so this is also important to give proper care to child. Many mothers today are doing this together, they work and earn and take care of children.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
3 Mar 13
Thanks for the share, but how can they do it if they will do it at the same time. taking good care of a child is a big responsibility and its hard to double your time.
@yugocean (9965)
• India
4 Mar 13
Even my mother was a working lady, she also took good care of us, her sisters were also working. But it is always good to have grand parents or somebody at home, they will also take extra care.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
9 Mar 13
Oh really that's nice that your mom is a working lady and do take care of you. Yes, you are right it is best to have grand parents but sad to say that i am far away from home and just alone.
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
I will talk to my husband if I really want to work, however as a christian and as a woman of God we have a covenant or a promise to God since creation of the world that God assigned women to take care of the house, the children and the husband, and God's covenant to men is they're the one that God assigned to toil the soil, or work for the family. it is an insult to God and your husband if you work as well, insult to God because you as woman wants to toil the soil thinking that the providence of the Lord is not enough for you, insult for the men or your husband because you have to work as well because his what he's doing is not enough for you. I know we are living in a generation miles away from what God has told us to be or to do. But those who follow God are more blessed and their lives are filled with God's joy, peace and richness.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
11 Mar 13
I know what you want to say is in the bible and of course as christian we should follow what He wants us to do. But some people do put God in the center and that way they are blessed and some are just only practical to what life should be. If they don't have an action then they will have nothing. But thank you so much for sharing.. Have a blessed day...
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
3 Mar 13
This is something that the couple needs to sit down and talk seriously about. If they can afford it, they can only get by with the salary of the husband so the wife can just stay and take care of her kids. Most women would never pass up the opportunity to be there with their kids all the time. Or if the wife would rather still do some work, maybe they can make an arrangement for her to work from home so she wouldn't have to leave their house and their kids to someone else.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
4 Mar 13
Thank you raine38, for your opinion. yes i agree with you. It is not so easy to find someone who will taking good care of the kids, we don't know if that person is really taking care of the kids.
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
Nowadays, wife has become the husbands partner in terms of earning a living. I seldom knew wives who are just in the house taking care of the children and doing house hold chores. Most of them are already employed or into business. Some reasons are , husbands income are not sufficient so they have to work also in order to cope up.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
11 Mar 13
Yes, that is also the reasons why some women like to work rather than in the house only. thank for your opinion. Have a nice day....
• India
10 Mar 13
She may be a house wife or a working woman but she is a woman, the most unfaithful animal. She should be kept within range.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
10 Mar 13
I am so sorry to say this to you what2talk but we women are not an animal we are humans and also we're not unfaithful. Don't you ever think like we're unfaithful in this world and don't dare talk to us like that. Look on the other side to, your mother is a woman also as if you are also talking to your mother like that. Respect us women because you will not leave in this world if your mother doesn't deliver you...