what is there in marriage?

March 8, 2013 7:52pm CST
I have been living together with the father of my two (2) kids for more than 2 years now. At the onset, we plan to have his previous marriage annulled. But now, no talk about it. We have been together in a number of memories. Before, sweet kisses, loving hugs and hopeful tomorrow....but now, things are all gone. It seems that I am living in a relationship bound to nowhere. that is what I am afraid of. I dont wanna waste my time in a relationship that will certainly end in due time. I guess this is my dilemma now. Loving a person who has totally changed will certainly affect our future and that of our kids. Sad reality.
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4 responses
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
Sad reality. Convince him to file an annulment, it's for you and your kids also. Its hard to be in a relationship like that. You didn't know where it is going.
9 Mar 13
there is only one thing i am certain of nowadays. i am just waiting for one day, he's gonna walk out the door.
@salonga (27998)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
Yes, that is sad reality and sadder even for the kids. It is really hard for the kids to understand why parents have to broke up. This is the reason why I am against separation. If possible, make all things possible to patch things up. After all.. love is lovelier, the second time around. But this is only possible if both parties are cooperative. If one is not. Then reconciliation won't be possible.
9 Mar 13
im set to it friend. i am bound to that and while he is still around, i am teaching myself to be in a situation that is about to happen. living our lives, only the three of us. me, my kids and we alone
@Iriene88 (5352)
• Malaysia
28 Mar 13
The higher our expectations, the higher our disappointments. That is why, people said that a woman best decision is to marry the right husband. I too in the same dilemma. I noticed the beautiful memories I have seems to be fades away fast ... However, you are still very young, I believe you can find a better man who truly loves you and know how to appreciate you. For my case ... I just do not bother anymore. I want to live my life to the fullest. By end of this year, I plan to travel and see the world more. I will do it with or without him.
• Bahrain
12 Mar 13
Sad reality, and the effect will be on your children. In every relationship, it is the couple who is responsible on how they will work it out. If there still a chance to patch what is missing, then do whatever it takes for the sake of your children. I know this is easy for me to say because I' m not in your position but I believe in the saying " try and try until you succeed". Trying is not a waste of time. For me family is important in this world. I think you're a strong woman, you can go through with this. Communication is important. Pray, God will provide. God bless. =) Good day.