I.uh lost a friend

Philippines
March 15, 2013 8:48am CST
Hello Lotters, It was more than that he was our classmate during our college days he was part of our dabarkadz group. but he wasn't close to me, he had a lot of friends very talkative and there was even a rumor he was gay but that didnt bother, he was a good person. I just received a text from a friend of mine that he's gone and he was burried yesterday, but i was online in fb the whole and i didn't know about this? then that's what fb message meant when another friend of mine said "i will miss you my friend" You know the worst of it is that SHE was ONLINE and she didn't even bother telling ME.good thing my bestfriend at least told me in the text. I feel so sad right that i wasn't able to go to his funeral. don't know the cause of his death, il probably ask.
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• Mexico
24 Mar 13
Hi Letran Knight: That's really sad news specially when there was the chance that she told you about this happening. Try not to blame her anyway. After all you don't know if she deliberately don't tell you this or if she just forget it because she just didn't think at the moment she was online that you didn't know. At this moment just try to have your friend in your memories and prays. ALVARO
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Mar 13
Don't bother yourself about it. You didn't know about his situation. He understand your side. You only felt guilty because you haven't there on his burial.
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
Hello Julyteen, that might have explained why he didn't want to have facebook account in the first place, he's been enduring this pain for a very long time. well, i do felt guilty about it since haven't seen them in years. well, better move on with my life now but there's nothing i can do about it.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 13
That's the better way to do, move on after you apologize for being absent on his burial
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
I am sorry about your lost. I do feel that you should have had the time to know that person better and probably you made a real, good friendship with him. Anyway, I am sure that he knows your a good person and what you can do is offer him a prayer. Maybe offer a mass would be even better.
• Philippines
20 Mar 13
Hello Jenny, No i don't think he and I were that close, and the reason why i never talk to them was because they back stab me a while back. after that i stop making friends with him, though am sad by his passing, am lucky to be alive and well. one of these days i'd offer him a prayer, am sure he has live his life