seeing your EX in your dreams, what a nightmare!? 0.o

Philippines
March 17, 2013 11:23am CST
I have been dreaming lately and it is sort of weird for me now... It was my Ex whom I kept on seeing in my dreams. I don't know why he keeps on showing up and I really don't understand it. It's been a year since we broke up and It's been quite a month since I last saw that person and as well we haven't had any communications then - mobiles, emails, Facebook, and even to his family and friends I never ask of him. It was him who first cut contact with me doing this all blocking, un-friending, bitterness, forgetting and returning everything... I guess it's part of how he's moving on but definitely I don't care. It's none of my concern anymore. So, it is quite surprising why I am seeing him in my dreams when eventually, I am not thinking of him before going to sleep. it's like having a nightmare or so, you know. Heheh. ;P But really, i don't get the point? What does that mean anyway? 0.o
3 responses
@MoonGypsy (4615)
• United States
17 Mar 13
you may have more unresolved issues with him than you think. you conscious might me trying to come to terms with why you broke up. maybe there is something you want to tell him. maybe there is something you wish he would tell you. i am not saying that you want him back. i am just saying it seems like a problem with proper closure.
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
17 Mar 13
I think every person that meant something for us in the past remains as a vivid image in our subconscious. When we dream, the subconscious just puzzle with that image. I don't think dreams are a lot more than it. Maybe if we have reccuring dreams, it means that we have more images there related to that thing, so we think often about that. Don't worry. It surely doesn't mean you are remembering him in a way you wouldn't like to.
@Raine38 (9036)
• United States
17 Mar 13
I am not really an expert on this kind of thing, but personally, I believe it's just some random bad dreams that we get once in a while. No reason to be alarmed or stressed over it in any way. Like you said, its been a year and all seems so good so far. I do get night mares like that at random, like how my husband would have an affair which I find so impossible just because I know him too well and let's just say if we ever break up it will be something other than infidelity.