fear to be happy
March 20, 2013 10:04pm CST
have you feel the same thing that I do as usually happen to me to feel emotional and financial suffering for me is normal in my life. but to be happy always ends up to suffering and another problem. short happiness and long suffering. Sometimes I fear to be happy in simple things. even I done nothing bad. I always wanted to be good but I am a fighter. I always defend myself but I still received bad karma.I only survive for daily living but unlike others which has stable and good life.I am not materialistic I only want simple life and to be an active servant of our church. but why is this everytime i get a good job I work and be a good employee in this. there is always a problem or reason. To suffer is not my choice but I accept if I always don this from this I became a better person from my weakness my faith goes strong unto Him. I always find my luck and it never come I never stop .. but now I feel like i am fear to be happy again .maybe it's better to suffer.if it will pleases God and if will benefit my family.for their are my own happiness. not myself anymore.
• Pune, India
21 Mar 13
Hi, It is very surprising that you have fear of happiness. Everyone tires to find happiness in their life. We can get happiness through many small things. You should try to grab the happiness from small things and try to remember them when you are sad. you are a strong person so you don't need to be afraid of being happy. My wife is suffering from muscular dystrophy. She can not walk and go outside the home. She has to sit on one place. But she tries to be happy always. She become sad and emotional many times but she tries to live happily with whatever she has. She never think negatively. She is exercising regularly., she odes online jobs, take some tuition and thus tires to become happy. She hasn't lose hope. She says that she will walk again and she is trying and somehow improving. she has very positive attitude towards life. Don't worry all your worrying days may go away and you will be happy forever.
21 Mar 13
Hey dear friend,I have one motto and share with you,"the world will not stop moving because of some people",so no matter how you feel,the time just goes by,so why not just feel happy no matter what happen on you?And I think feel happy will help you out from the suffering sometimes,so don't be sad my friend.
• United States
21 Mar 13
Hi there! interesting topic. As for me, I'm not much of a too much lets be happy person all the time. I can be happy but then I'm either serious or sad and quiet. I do get emotional and quiet sometimes or be deep thinking. I'll accept whatever happens. I do am worried about financial stuff since I don't have a job and it's hard for me to get a job. I'm happy but in a way i'm sometimes sad of things. Also being super happy, people will just find ways for me to just get angry and sad or mad. Oh wells. I guess it's how we deal with every day stuff going on.
21 Mar 13
Don't be scared to be happy though like you said when your happy soon something will not be okay, the important thing is we are happy, we should count the blessings not the bad things, and i think everything that happens has a reason. Try to observe the bad things there is always a lesson, i don't believe its a karma. Just continue to be a good person, don't think of the bad things that happens, not all things are permanent is this wonderful world. we must enjoy life though there is sufferings. We must think positive always. If you think negative you will attract negative. I'm sure bad things will end up soon. Cheer up, there is always tomorrow and there is always hope.