I'm not a bikini girl

@jricky1 (6800)
China
March 21, 2013 3:32am CST
I don't have such a good figure and thus maybe i dont look good through that,i should really be confident cuz i'm not that bad,just seeing those models and thin girls made me feel not good.But i have a good heart and great attitude to life.
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11 responses
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
21 Mar 13
There are different kinds of bikini for different types and shapes of body. And don't think of those models, most of them are airbrushed, or they spend thousands to achieve that perfect look, it's their livelihood and they have to look every inch "perfect". I am also not skinny, I am slender but a far cry from being a model type. But my husband thinks I am sexy and that is enough for me.
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• Los Angeles, California
24 Jun 14
Can't agree more!
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
21 Mar 13
I'm the same kind of girl as you. I've reached the point in my life when I accept what I look like. Even if I did countless diets and exercised excessively, I would not be looking like those models with their flat stomach and perfectly round, small and firm butts. But now, as I found someone who loves my not-so-perfect (according to me, at least) looks, I believe in myself more. Actually, I know people bigger than me wearing bikinis, and you know what? I envy them. I envy that they don't care about what people say about them. I would not wear a bikini, because for some people, that would be visual environment pollution, I believe, hahaha :D. I'm gonna opt for the one-piece suits.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
21 Mar 13
I see many girls also being confident and to show the strength.Thus people would love us,lol,everyone in this world is unique and different.So we just be a unique individual.Thank you for responding and all the best.,i also believe the clothes we wear show different figures.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
I do feel uncomfortable about how I look. I would compare myself to those women my age who still has this great figure. But what am I to do, if this is what I have now? Isn't it also my fault for not making effort to stay fit? So, instead of being unhappy with what I see in the mirror, I think of the things which I am worthy of. You should do the same.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
21 Mar 13
Please be confident,friend.This is what mylotters told me and i now try to make it work and don't give myself such embarrassment.To concern the quality of life and live happily.That really matters.
@miryanag (346)
• Bulgaria
21 Mar 13
Most of those models you see are fake or unhealthy skinny.Be proud of your body. Good looks is not the way you actually look but it s more about the way you feel in your own skin. Belive me if you are confident others will like you without judging you.Summer is almost here so have fun in your bikini
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
21 Mar 13
Thanks so much for the constructive advice.I'll cherish what i got and it's been a gift given to me.I'm proud of my mom by giving me this.I'll buy new one and to shine my own strength.Great girl.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
21 Mar 13
Hello friend... you have honor from other people not only from your body figure, but also from your inner beauty. I think the second more important than physical. I hope you confident with your figure now. thankful to God, There are many people outside that have worse figure but they still happy and enjoy their life. Try to identify your surplus and make it improve your performance. Have a nice day...
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
21 Mar 13
Inner beauty is indeed that we should possess and it's more important than the outside look.Thanks so much for your advice and i'll try to find my confidence back and nothing more important than that.All the best to you as well.
• South Africa
31 Mar 13
You look cute. Put more pictures so we can see more of you.
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Mar 13
Hehe, I am not a bikini girl, too. Besides without a good figure, I also dare not to show my figure I am very shy in this aspect. I just want to wear the normal swimming suit rather than sexy swimming suit. So it is not possible for me to wear bikini. It goes so far for me. I don't have this confidence.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
It is natural to feel insecure sometimes. But we don't have to feel bad just because other people look better than us. the way to deal with it is to make ourselves look good and feel good about ourselves. We need to remind ourselves that we have our good points too.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
27 Mar 13
Perhaps just not everyone have a good body figure. But that does not restrain you from looking good. In my opinion, one with moderate body figure can also look good if she knows how to dress herself and manage herself. Such as keeping herself clean, a properly managed hair and so on. Be positive and be yourself. It is just a matter of time until someone would notice what's in you and crazy about you.
• India
21 Mar 13
a good heart and great attitude that you have is the most beautiful and valuable thing in this world.
@Dias14 (176)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 13
Maybe the models you see is false or unsound cachectic. You must be proud of your body. Visible to the person not the primary but you must can feel your skin deeply, and you can enjoy your own skin. If you believe other people will love you without you feel anxiety. Try by next summer and have fun with a bikini you