She Lied And Said She Wasn't Married
By TLilly12
@TLilly12 (1229)
United States
March 22, 2013 11:29pm CST
This friend of mind had married this woman, some years ago and recently he asked her, was she married and she finally confessed, and told him she was married, to someone else he had said something kept telling him, to keep asking her that, I had asked someone had she ever been married because, she has kid in a counter country, and she would always go out of town, and never have him go with her, to her country, so come to fine out all that raveling she was doing, she was going to meet with her 1st husband, and never told this guy she was already married, I think she marred him so that she could live here in the United States, and get his house, but it backfires on her and I am glad it did, now he has to go to court, and divorce her and take her name off of his bank account, and his house, and I hope she get deported back to her country,it's not good to lie, your lies will catch up with you, sooner or later.
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14 responses
@danirenea21 (36)
•
23 Mar 13
Oh wow! That is so hard to believe that anyone would ever do anything like that! I'm glad that your friend was okay in the end but that woman should know better. Any person in their right mind should.
@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
23 Mar 13
You will be surprise at the things some people will do, what lie they will tell, when they come to this country, to get money, a house, and good life to life, because these are things they don't have, in their country they are dirt poor, so she told a lie to try and get, what she wanted, but it backfired on her.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
23 Mar 13
It's like a story in a movie. I can hardly believe it's true. Marrying two persons at the same time? Does she really love your friend? Or it is despicable if she just wants to cheat him and gets his property. Good people never tell lies like this.
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@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
She should have followed the path of righteouness, break her first husband legally first before accepting the second, which must be told likewise of her past. Poor woman her hidden agenda backfired on her. Before she takes on another man, let her speak everything and nothing but the truth.
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
Maybe the woman had reasons why she kept it that long from your friend, having been married before marrying your friend. It could be like what you have said, to be able to live in the US and become an American citizen. It's good that she finally confessed the truth about having a husband and kid. I just hope your friend finally find someone who will really love him not for anything else.
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
23 Mar 13
that is bigamy and this lady is in real trouble. how was she able to get married twice? do they not require some kind of a document that certifies that she was eligibile to contract marriage before the ceremony? what a mess. i sympathize with the husband.
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@glovvornblog (19)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
This type of thing happens more often than most people would believe. I've worked as an expat all over the world and it is something you just learn to watch out for. Sad as it may sound most of the world still see dollar signs when they see americans.This issue also often comes up inside the Philippines as it has no divorce law.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
So that woman lied. She should have not done that. We have some married women who went to the US to look for opportunities. We just know that they married already in the US. They have different situations however. An example is my friend, she and her husband were separated but their marriage still exists as we don't have divorce here. Before she married her american hustand she told him that she was married so she filed a divorce against her filipino husband In one of the courts in california thereafter they married,
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@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
23 Mar 13
Oh wow, that is one heck of a knot. Probably did fib so she could live here in the United States. It's very sad that she had to lie to that man about loving him. He probably thought he was getting the love of his life, then he finds out it's all a giant hoax. Very sad.
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@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
23 Mar 13
Serves her right. I hate liars and users. Imagine all the trouble and effort that guy has to go through just to bring that woman here. I hope he also learns a lesson this time to be more cautious of people and be extra careful, and make sure that he knows everything about the person before entrusting her with his heart and life.
I feel so sorry for him. But I hope that someday he will find someone who is worthy of his love.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
23 Mar 13
yes I do agree with you. saying lie, always is smelly and one day smell will come from it anyway. but why to not ask her about the reason of saying lie? maybe was afraid of losing her love or anything like that? it is better to talk to her about why she lied first... but she has done a big mistake of hiding reality about a marriage, specially if she has a kid, how a one can hide and lie about having a kid?
@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
23 Mar 13
All the lies she told is now her night mare, and I am glad she got caught about every evil thing she has done, now he can live his life, as a single man again, this make it hard to trust people again, you have to ask questions,before you get in a relationship this deep.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
23 Mar 13
OMG married the now marry another what is going on with this sorry I don't care how you put it it is wrong and this person has taken away a right of true love and trust
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