Would you stay in a complicated relationship if you are seeing some hope.

@mayrah (1037)
Philippines
March 31, 2013 1:02am CST
I didn't know I would be in a complicated relationship. I didn't regret what I ha experience cause I had learned a lot. I just regret that i was not careful so i was hurt. I met this man at work, he was so nice, gentle, caring and loving. I can say our relationship was almost perfect. We never had any fights. If only things went right i would say he must be my soulmate.. Now i resigned in my job because i can no longer take the complicated status we had. I didnt know if it right decision that i choose to leave. For me if you love the person you will set him free an thats what i did. And eventhough I know its hard to find a job i still risk because I know God will guide and give me something more than that and somthing that will make my life more meaningful. Its just so difficult when you know you are enjoying life that is not God centered. I kno in my relationship with that man there still little hope, that if I will b patient and fight for that love I can win.. But now I decided to give up because I believe if he i Gods perfect will you don't need to fight for it. God will give it to you freely... I'm still hoping one day I will find my God-given soulmate..
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@iamsittie (330)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Keep in mind that there is no perfect relationship my dear. It is just a matter of accepting your flaws and differences so that is why you never had fights. I am in a complicated relationship right now. Very complicated yet I am not losing hope for us because for me we didn't yet do our best to fight our love. I do not want to regret in the end so I want to give it a try for the second time around. And that time is when we are financially stable and have finished our studies. :) Why did you leave him? Is it about your work or more than that?
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• United States
31 Mar 13
I am having problems myself right now. but,I am going to do what ever I need to keep my man. I want to spend the rest of my days with him. He has some problems we need to work on but,so do I. hard work pays off in the end and that is all I am reaching for.
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• Philippines
31 Mar 13
I've been in a very complicated relationship too. I had this 2 year relationship and I really loved that person. I already saw myself to that person in the future. We built our dreams together but after 2 years we broke up. It's hard to accept the fact that we broke up but I know our relationship would really end. I moved on after a year and now I am happy with my partner. I am married now but when I still remember that person, I can still feel something inside my heart.
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@Mintlin (326)
• China
31 Mar 13
what is the problem in your relationship ? Does he have a wife already ? there is not a yes or no answer for your question,i think we should figure out what is the problem first,then we can decide is it worthy or not to stay in that complicated relationship. Good luck
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@dainy1313 (2354)
• Leon, Mexico
31 Mar 13
Hello Mayrah I hope that you are fine. I just run away from love complications. Once I did a mistake, and I learned from it. I love peace, I really love peace, peace of mind, peace at soul and peace of heart. Blessings Mayrah... dainy
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@quieley (319)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
I've been in a complicated relationship before. I learned to love the guy to the point of almost destroying my life. It turned out that the guy is not available. I mean, I was deceived then. So to make things right, I resigned and leave my hometown. So you see, just because I made one major mistake, I experienced bad circumstances. Not only that I leave my job, I also have to go somewhere else to forget that past, and the embarrassment it caused me, leaving my family behind. I don't know how complicated your's. But what is important is we learned from our mistakes. And now I thank God, that despite my stubbornness, He still gives me the best husband.
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
You didn't mention how complicated your relationship was. But, you realizing that it is the best thing to do, then you should give yourself a pat on your back for setting him free and wanting to have a better relationship and a more peaceful mind and heart.