is it good to hear this from your husband?

April 1, 2013 11:05am CST
I was walking and the man behind me was talking on the phone, I guess to his wife. He was carrying a back pack and some hand carry bags. It seems that he was from a vacation. I didn't mean to listen to what he was saying but couldn't help myself but to notice it. He was saying, "what are you saying? I'm coming home now.. you are saying so many things! If you are stressed out don't involve me, I've also lots of things to think!" wow that was so annoying if I were the person he was talking to. fortunately I am not. It made me think that why married persons come to this point? Sweet and caring in the first few years but definitely would no last forever.
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@quieley (316)
• Philippines
4 Apr 13
Couples are supposed to share their problems with each other, and carry each other's burden. A wife needs her husband's moral support in different areas of life. The way that man talked to his wife is really rude and insulting. The wife needs some sympathy.
• India
2 Apr 13
that is good at least some experience some sweet moments in first years of their marriage for me, my husband on the first day of marriage, in front of me start talking to his .... rented one and shout and beat me up that I am this.... now what?
• China
2 Apr 13
Though I don't have a husband, I have a friend who makes me always annoyed. Firstly, I think there's no love between us. Secondly, it is she that has a bad temper. Somebody just can't handle their temper. Every little thing may make them irritable. So does my friend. This kind of people really lack of tolerance.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
Marriage is a lifetime thing, and if you agree to marry someone then you should be ready to face each problem together and not be selfish and deal with your problems alone. Both should be involved in each others' lives..
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
It is never nice to her those words from anybody, but sometimes, it happens. Things are not in condition and probably, the wife is also a blubber mouth....
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
2 Apr 13
WEll job you don't really know if he was talking to his wife, girlfriend, parents or room mate..It just seemed to be a lot to automatically think he was talking to his wife..We have to realize that as humans we sometimes assume the wrong things...
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Apr 13
Well of course not every couple is like that. Not every man is that inconsiderate towards their wife... My husband is not that way. If I need to talk about things he listens, even if he is stressed himself... We try to work through things together. I don't know why some couples get to this point. I guess they get tired of each other or they don't find different ways to work through tough things...