I'm serious lack of sense of security

@elenaliu (149)
China
April 2, 2013 9:09pm CST
Last night,I made a dream that my BF had an affair with other girl,I was very angry.When I woke up,I asked myself that what has come over me?Is that dream means that I'm not trust my boyfriend?I'm so crazy,I'm serious lack of sense of security anymore.
7 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
It can be that you are insecure and your dreams reflect this. I had dreams like this too. Don't make a bid deal out of them.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
8 Apr 13
I'm sorry, try to seek inside you what's causing this. Reafirming to your self the things you already know but maybe don't believe subconsciously might help, it always helps me.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
3 Apr 13
It was just a bad dream, it won't mean anything at all. Maybe in fact such dream reflects that you lack of confidence on your relationship, and you won't trust your boyfriend will be faithful to you. Maybe you should talk to him and maybe you should work on your sense of trusting on people. Otherwise, it will bother you for while.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Apr 13
Hi, elanaliu. I have thought about this for a long time. During my younger years with my husband, when we were still not married, I used to be jealous a lot. But realized that it might ruin the relationship so I decided to change my ways. So I try, with all my might to have that trust with him. But at the back of my mind, I'd feel a pinch of jealousy. But I have never shown him anymore.
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Apr 13
I have had a dream like that before... Usually it is triggered by something we are feeling. The night I had that dream my husband and I had an argument and things were left unsettled. If your worried about it, you will dream about it...
• India
3 Apr 13
you dont have to be superstitious my friend. Its probably some confused thought in your mind that took the shape of dream.. Dreams doesnt always mean something.
@alicia812 (646)
• Australia
3 Apr 13
Hi elenaliu. I believe that your dream was the reflection of your fear or insecurity. Only you knows for sure what's going on in your relationship with your boyfriend. It is either you resolve issues in your rela- tionship or start trusting your boyfriend again. The next time you see your boyfriend think of all the things you love about him and why you should trust him and love him. Perhaps, these positive thoughts will bring out more positive feelings in you. Wish you all the best.