I'm Muslim But I loves a girl without marriage...you think this is bad???

@Tushavi (2078)
Karachi, Pakistan
April 8, 2013 12:49pm CST
hi to all well, Islam preach us complete solution of humanity, either its a Trade or Relationship, Jobs or Friendship, But I really feels shy to tells you that in My teen age I loves a girl, do you think its a kind of Corruption for Muslim Guy to Love without marriage??? I am sorry guys sometimes I feels guilty about this, can you share your thoughts??? have a nice day...
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
We cannot avoid loving someone and it is beyond our control. As long as you are loving her without physical contact- I don't think you are doing something wrong. Love is mysterious in so many ways and love is not all about physical connection too.
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Well,for us not to agree that love girl with no marriage.Or live in with no marriage. Its more sin ,living with its better to marry a girl that you love truly .So choose the right one and with God's guidance.
@scubapro (1056)
• Gifu, Japan
9 Apr 13
i am muslim too,but there is nothing wrong here , i loved girls too when i was teenager ,its really normal we cant stop our passions because of our religion please dont feel guilty,because god knows how we think and what we are happy mylotting
@youless (93111)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Apr 13
It can be understanding. Since love and marriage are quite different. Marriage means much more responsibilities. So you can love someone deeply, but you may not be ready to get married with her. You can have many worries since many things are unknown in the future. When you know each other quite well and fall in love deeply, then at that time you will think about marriage.
@srisahara (4147)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 13
Hi Tushavi...I also Muslim. When I still in Senior High School, I also fall in love with someone. He is my classmate. Yes, I love him, because he is very kind and smart. But, I do not anything, I just save my feeling until I finish my study. I think love is natural...It will come when we are growing to adult, but we have keep our feeling until we ready to marry. I think, each human experience fall in love...but the difference how to express the love...
@Mavic123456 (12660)
• Thailand
9 Apr 13
if you feel bad Tush, maybe there is something wrong with it. You know the teachings we know we violate because we know in our head that it is not RIGHT. maybe it is not RIGHT at all, otherwise you won't be guilty about it. that's my perception about GUILT. if I feel guilty I am so sure in my head that I VIOLATED something.
@bestboy19 (5482)
• United States
9 Apr 13
As long as you didn't commit any sin with her, it's all right that you loved her.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Do you mean you have loved a girl but never intended to marry her? Or you think that it is bad to love a girl outside of marriage?
@ElicBxn (60895)
• United States
8 Apr 13
I take it you had physical relations with her? I think Allah understands that people make mistakes. Part of what makes him Great and Good is that he created us and knows that we will make mistakes and can forgive us. As you grow in both your wisdom and faith, Allah will expect more from you. Guilt reminds you that you have failed, but also reminds you that you need to do better next time.