Why Marriage Becomes A Dying Institution?

@quieley (316)
Philippines
April 16, 2013 6:40am CST
What happened in today's time that some married couple tend to break up after a long time? Before getting married, they seem to be madly in love with each other. They even think that marriage is an assurance that they will be with someone they love for the rest of their life. Of course, when they decide to get married they never hope or wish to break it in the end. Is there any person in the world who propose or accept a proposal and expect that someday they marriage would not work? I'm sure the happiness they feel during that time is genuine. Is marriage just like any ordinary thing?
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5 responses
• United States
19 Apr 13
The answer to your question is yes. I believe that what love I have would disappear if i marry the guy. Marriage changes people and it would change me for the worst. I never thought marriage would assure I'm with the guy for the rest of my life! But...with that said there are many couples who do marry and are happy. Marriage is still a huge thing.
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@judelen (428)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
Hello! There are many couple now a days that marriage is just an ordinary contract to enter to. Couple before marriage are so in love to each other but as the days go by and by their love will also little by little will disappear. For me when you are not seriously decided to get married, remember that its a life time partner. So by this entering this vow you should be sure that you love each other for better and for worst. For in a married life if God is not in the family, i'm sure this will not founded in a good foundation. It's natural that in married life, trials will be happened anytime so in this situation you should know how to face this circumstances. Don;t think that married is just an ordinary thing, it a thing that you can be proud of because you can see you accomplishment in life when you mariied.
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• Philippines
18 Apr 13
I guess life is unpredictable and among those things is marriage. You simply cannot predict what you will do and your partner after the wedding day (or a considerable time after that occasion). I often hear my cousin say that it always takes two to work on a marriage and it needed work on every opportunity. So, it's not a perpetual condition - it changes as the people in a relationship do. Modern marriage, one that is based on romantic love needs constant tending and attention. Marriage is still there when the couple creates a family and it affects the family as the family affects marriage. Many people say that they fall out of love - and that as hurt as it may be, can happen in the most dream couples or wedding.
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@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
16 Apr 13
The problem after marriage is that, they are thinking they got everything and need more which can't be possible. It's getting just like a business where they are craving for more and more. But marriage is not a business and hence according to those they got nothing. So, divorce. The couple who knows how to be happy and just go with the flow rather than just craving a lot are being successful in their life and marriage.
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@efeng186 (20)
• China
18 Apr 13
yes,marriage is not a ordinary thing,whoever,we should be responsible for the marriage,before marriage,we love each other sincerely,but as time goes by,maybe there are many unknew things to appear,but we should have the optimitic psychology to treat the unknew things,if we were married,we have the home,if we were not married,we did not have a home.maybe we are married,it is fate,please value the fate that we were marriage.
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