neither me would like a relationship like that :(

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i have a friend and she is complaining about her boyfriend. they have been together for quite sometimes now, i guess for more than five years. i observed how their love story goes and grows everyday. they are so close and very passionate in the early days. but since, i got so busy with my activities in life, haven't had an opportunity to meet my friend at a regular basis, i mean, we only meet if there is a chance. and now, i heard her complains. she told me that she and her boyfriend meet only once unlike before. so asked her, is your boyfriend working already? she said yes to me. then, i told her; maybe it is the time that consumed him that is why he doesn't shows up. she sighed and answered me, i guess and i can feel that our closeness and my being trustworthy give him too much overconfidence not to work his part in this relationship. i cannot even receive a text from him but in a week, he appeared in my front. i do not want to ask him of a thing because i know, as his obligation, it must not me alone who will do a part to make this relationship working. why can't he see that? she also added, i mean i tried to be an understanding partner but please not in this way because i feel that he assumed that i am okay in this kind of set up. i told her that talk with him. she said to me that yes, in time. to me too, i hate this kind of relationship. i guess, i am a passionate kind of person and that i want to tuck my boyfriend with me if possible what about you, what you gonna do if your boyfriend and girlfriend experience a twist in a relationship? share it here please ----