Loving someone who don't know love

@Ashokraj (107)
India
April 21, 2013 1:01am CST
Have you ever felt the pain of loving someone deeply who don't even know what is love? I am feeling. I show her the extremity of my love. But she didn't show me a single drop of love. She didn't even understand my love. I feel like i'm dying
7 responses
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
Well. We can't really force someone to love us in return if they don't have even a single drop of love to us. We can't do something about it. It really hurts, definitely but we need to accept the fact that we can't win the heart of our dearest love. There are a lot of women there, you can still find someone better than what she is.
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
21 Apr 13
We shouldn't force someone to love. We can bear if our loved one doesn't love us. But we can't bear if our loved one hide his/her love. It will hurt more.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
Good day Ashokraj, I know how you feel as I was once been there. And it was really painful. Though I have tried my best to be strong during those years but the pain goes out and speaks through the tears that flows out from my eyes.
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
21 Apr 13
God bless you friend. I don't cry for her behaviour of not showing her love. But i can't stop crying when she acts as if she doesn't love me. I believe she will stop my crying by saying the truth
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
Don't feel bad, maybe the feeling of sadness is normal, but not feeling bad at all. Love is free, so if you love someone and she doesn't acknowledge the love, so be it. No one forced you to love that person- it is your prerogative to love her. It just happens that the feeling is not mutual. Look for someone who might give you the same attention.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
22 Apr 13
Loving someone that they don't love you is such a miserable thing for me,it is not because they didn't know love,it is about they don't love you.Can be cruel to me but well i think you need to find someone else to move on and good for you.You will feel much better.
21 Apr 13
All of us know what is all about love.No one doesn't know how to fall in love.In your case she might not in love with you. She don't have any special feelings on you.We cannot expect someone will love us back as we love them. If you love her you should respect how does she feel about you. Love is a feeling, so we cannot force anyone to love us back in return.
@Ashokraj (107)
• India
21 Apr 13
She also love me a lot. I don't know why she doesn't show me. She loves me more than i love her. But she hides her love for some reasons. I know love won't come by compulsion. It should come from one's heart. It came from both of our's heart. I know that. Nothing can hide true love. It will come one day definitely.
• Philippines
25 Apr 13
Just go on with the process. I know you'll just learn to let go of the pain and accept the outcome later on. There are really times when our love will never be reciprocated but I'm sure there's always a good reason behind. Maybe there's just that someone out there who deserves your love, and that someone is the one who can accept and appreciate your love for her. Be patient.
@swamiaks (22)
• India
21 Apr 13
My dear friend, At first, I would like tell you that all of we have been misunderstanding so called 'love'from many centuries.In my way 'love' is the overflow of our inner beings,cares,kindness,gratitude etc towards others which come naturally from our harts.A natural love does not discriminate whom we love.A man of love just love who ever comes around him. he is like a tree giving shade to all whoever come under it. If you really love her just go on loving her without even thinking if she care you or not.But love in this world have become a good way of slavery.