Things that hurt the most

Philippines
April 21, 2013 9:58am CST
Missing someone the way I miss my love right now. Debating with myself about the right thing to do, but usually is the hardest to do. Forcing myself to grow up because I have to be both mom and dad to my kids. Trying to make my folks understand that I'm neither a robot nor a perfect creature. Making myself believe it'll only take just a little more time before I reunite with my love. I'm so lonely. I just had to write this out because I don't have anybody at home to talk these through, when in fact I badly need a hug and a refuge to turn to. :( What hurts you the most?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
What hurts me is when someone/anyone that I love is feeling sad. I can't bear to see my family and love one suffering pain, or feeling down and lonely. I can say that I am happy with life- being single (and a mother of 3 kids) is not easy. But there is nothing to ask for cause I love my freedom. Hope you feel alright now
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
I feel better because I have people here to talk to, thanks to you, guys. :) I am happy with my life, really. I can honestly say I won't ever trade it with anybody else's. It's just that sometimes I couldn't help but wish my partner was here to help me through all these. It's so much easier with him around.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
Of course it is normal to feel emptiness, or something is missing. Because we want someone to make us feel loved and make us feel so special. It happens some time. :)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
Yes. I just wish he was here to comfort me. :(
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
hi there, to be honest with you, the things that hurts me most is when my family didn't appreciate my presence anymore. and that happened when i came back home 2 years ago. and that same thing happens until now, so i am thinking if an opportunity knocks this time, i would definitely grab it.
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
hello there, for now, i am trying to move and carry on with the usual things that i am doing. and not thinking if i am worthy of their love or not. what really matter now is, i need to work on my own so i can able to have my own house someday.
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
I have the same family problem. I always feel that I am not worthy of their love and acceptance. It's hard to fit in because they all think they're perfect and that I'm not.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
All of us needs to be hugged sometimes. We all need to feel the comfort. I understand you and I hope you can have comfort soon. sometimes it is just hard for us to live and i see you also have a kid and im sure your stress is way over thinking how to provide for your family. Keep on working hard and never give up. Believe that it will get better, it will be better.
21 Apr 13
Having your kids is one to be grateful and be able to surpass each trials you experienced. Hurts me most when I wasn't able to do things that I have to do and it affects the people who are important to me because of my selfishness.
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
You're right. I am so thankful that God blessed me with my children who always make me feel loved and needed.
@swamiaks (22)
• India
21 Apr 13
My dear beloved, As I have experienced,there isn't anything that can hurt you if you know the right way of living.The hidden truth of life is that other person can neither make us happy nor sad unless we ourselves be.Truly speaking, we don't live our life ourselves that's why anybody is able to hurt us so easily.The only way to be happy is to live with our own internal nature.
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
You said it well. I guess I have to start being more independent and stop living my life my parents want me to. I should really try to stand on my own feet and spread my wings so I can really fly and be happy. :)
@sorima24 (77)
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
what makes me hurts is when i been broken heart before i give him all of me,but he cheated on me.I had lot's of sacrifice in our relationship and give up my job because of him.And the most hurting is when were together and he has another woman he fall we had a baby so sad,but i'll try to be strong so im not insane of what happened on me.He broke all my dreams...and i really hate him.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
22 Apr 13
I think you should really develop some time with your friends and to your things together,that would probably helpful to you,isn't it?So good luck to you friend do not feel lonely cuz this may happen quite normal and that's how i handle it.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
22 Apr 13
I'm glad that you decided to come to mylot and express your thoughts and feelings. When we are done, feeling depressed or lonely it is a good thing for us to talk with someone else.Here you have a variety of different individuals who you can talk with. I hope that it is soon that you will be able to reunite with your love. For me it's realizing that I need to move forward and in a new direction with my life. My marriage has fallen apart even though I have worked on it for years. I know that I have given it everything that I have. Now it is time for me to work on supporting myself and my daughter.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
There is nothing more can hurt me most because i am always hurt. I lived with it ! What hurt me most is not for myself but for all women that are frequently maltreated and abused and they don't do anything to stop it and saved themselves. This is where i am so hurt ! Women are empowered today . What boys can do we can do . We can outwit them even ! In everything we are equal with boys. Therefore no way can they abused us. We deserved to be respected ! Girls should have a stand always.
@ihopper (97)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
I suppose what hurts the most for me is being so close to the person I love who is in pain and not be able to do anything. It's quite horrifying if you think about it. This has happened a lot of times before. And it really hurts. It's not like I got cut hurt but it's the it feels like I'm burning hurt. I felt so helpless. I didn't know what to do for them. I couldn't do anything for them. I could only watch them suffer in pain.