walk out without explanation!!!

India
April 22, 2013 1:51am CST
you know... he walked out without giving me any explanation!!! its been months now an it still pains... i still m stuck with that one question... why? in fact with time passing by it is occupying my every thought...!!! some times those sweet memories make me smile... while other times the craving makes me cry... a bitter cry :(
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
23 Apr 13
Dont cry for those who have walked out.... and dont worry good friends will always be with you..... like me.... remember me?????
• India
24 Apr 13
yes very much!!! its been long since we met
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• India
23 Apr 13
Sometimes Its for good, There will be a day when you will laughing at this phase of your life, Some people are just not worth your attention, time, energy and most importantly love. I believe in "KARMA" what goes around will come around. You know when it does...
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
good day aruchita_13, it is quite difficult to deal with this situation that you have open-up. hence, you cannot tell or say where you can start. its like you are put on hang on an instance since you are in that situation for months now. thus, you are not aware the real status of the relationship that you have had with your partner. and this is the consequence of walking out without any given explanation.
@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
22 Apr 13
Sorry,sounds like you're having a hard time.It seems he doesn't want to continue,but to not explain this to you and make sure you're going to be okay shows that he's not caring for you the way he should.The fact you are concerned about the situation shows that you do care.You should call him or see him and ask quite clearly what is going on. If it ends,you shouldn't worry because people who care are pretty rare and somebody else will meet you and love that.
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Apr 13
I'm sorry that your going through such a hard time! I know right now nothing will really make you feel better but he didn't deserve you if he could just leave you like that. That was really wrong and shows his character and true colors.
• United States
22 Apr 13
So sorry you are going through this. A broken heart hurts like hell. I had a similar situation about ten years ago. Someone I cared for deeply (really thought he was the one) ended the relationship with no explanation (well, he gave one but it was pretty weak). I took it personally, and it was a real blow to my self-esteem as I thought there must be something wrong with me that made him end what seemed like a good relationship. People we partner with are like mirrors that reflect back to us who we think we are by how we respond to them. I responded by sinking into a dark whole thinking all kinds of negative things about myself. This showed me that my sense of self worth was coming from someone else and that I needed to grow so that it comes from me. I decided that nobody should be able to shake my core to that degree if I truly love myself from within. After some deep grieving I decided I never wanted to feel that horrible again and that my sense of self and self worth needed to be strengthened. A person leaving you hurts as it should, but it shouldn't hurt so much that you feel completely empty and worthless without them. If you are feeling that way you need to know that people have their own baggage and issues sometimes that have nothing to do with you. You must know that you are valuable, capable and precious without them. Count it as their loss then find something creative to pour your energy and pain into. I wish you well
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
That's sad to hear. I think it's but normal to reminisce about the good time you've had with him, and it's also okay to cry. It's an outlet. It's better than having pent up emotions. Maybe you could give him some time, a few days perhaps, and then try and get in touch with him so you could talk and find closure.