my mother and my father

Shenyang, China
September 15, 2013 12:12am CST
When I was a child my mother and my father was getting on very well with each other.But now,when I have been an adult, the situation is no longer so good.They often quarrel with each other becuse of some household affairs.I don't know how to deal with this matter .I love them,but I donot know how to coordinate the relationship between them.Who can help me?
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• Zhejiang, China
15 Sep 13
i have had this problem before,don`t worry,i think you should organize a family meetting and tell them about your thought.
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• Jakarta, Indonesia
15 Sep 13
be patiently and keep loving your mother and your father.let them solve their problems.and dont forget always praying to god :) God bless your family :)
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• Shenyang, China
15 Sep 13
Thank you!
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• Moradabad, India
15 Sep 13
There are only two reasons of it, money or extra merital relations. Only patience and love can be helpful.Time is the greatest physician for everything.
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• Shenyang, China
15 Sep 13
Thank you!
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• Hangzhou, China
17 Sep 13
my parents are both 70+ , and they quarrel every day. i used to worry about it. but i don't now. it is their lifestyle, and there is a strong bond between them. so, there is not much to worry about.
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• Hangzhou, China
17 Sep 13
i am wondering how old you are. if you are about 15 or 15+, you can do sth. if not, i am sorry
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• New Delhi, India
16 Sep 13
Hey...husband n wif relation is a unique bond dat ppl share..dis relation is kinda sweet n sour..the things dat come out as fights is actually der love n trust fr each other.. Also it's a human nature to expect more from ur loved ones.. so, don't panic..just be patient.. n all you can do is try to recapitulate der old memories by surprising with special gifts like photo albums of der earlier tyms or a vacation package...Just chill its all love which is coming out as fights...
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• China
17 Sep 13
I think a couple would get along better and better as time goes by, if nothing big happens. So in your situation, I guess there should be a new problem between them, and that's the reason of the quarrels. Try to find it out?
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• Jakarta, Indonesia
16 Sep 13
I like the content of his posts
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• Bucharest, Romania
16 Sep 13
The problems are found in many families. An important role in resolving quarrels between parents they have children. I think a serious discussion with them can solve the problem ...
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@1481978 (12)
• Kampala, Uganda
16 Sep 13
l have this problem too.Good to know am not alone. What l have done and l think its working is,l called all my brothers(am the only girl) for a meeting and we told them how we felt about it. We have seen a change. Don't worry things will look up but l know how it hurts to see your parents not getting along
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@iamsaye (11)
• China
15 Sep 13
there are something we can not control in life.just be more clam and patient.
@hemeng (11)
• Hefei, China
16 Sep 13
God bless you
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