Who is Great "Mother" or "Wife" ?
By Hemant83
@Hemant83 (1280)
India
    September 16, 2013 12:49am CST
                         
            After getting married I learned and still learning so much of things from my wife, like what responsibilities towards home,life and family. Mom made me who I am right now. She taught me to read, write. She has a important role in my life. Whatever today am I just because of her. But the question comes in my mind who is great mom or wife.. Every man here, don't you confused ?
8 responses
         @sunshineveryday (4)
 • San Francisco, California
                    22 Aug 14
                    The first mistake is comparing them. Right off the bat there is a generational difference. The 70's vs the 90's or the 80's vs the 2000's. Your mother comes from a diffferent place and a diifferent time than you and your wife. You all are not cohorts. Your mother and your wife are also different people with two totally diffferent backgrounds, likes, and interests. What your mother does oustanding, your wife may be terrible at and the same vice versa. Its like comparing your oldest son with your youngest daughter. What good is that going to do. Love both of them for who they are. If at anytime you are having problems in your marriage, lean on your faith in God, go get counseling, and make an overall attempt at giving more  than you take from one another and in most cases things can usually at least be peacful and smooth in a household. Always bid reverence and respect to mom for being the matriarch of the lineage but also always respect your wife for being the matriarch of YOUR family.
                     @jkct02 (2874)
 • Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
                    17 Sep 13
                    Why must you decide whether your mother or your wife is greater? What would you think if your mother is making a comparison whether you as her son is greater compared to her husband, who is your father? Mother and wife are both important persons in a man's life in different ways. Both are great if an answer is needed.
                     @eneco2013 (8)
 • Nigeria
                    18 Sep 13
                    Both are great,but in terms of who influences the character of a child most,the mother come first.The reason is obvious,while the dad goes out to work,mum,most often than not,stays at home with the child and nurtures him/her.
                     @RyanViola (76)
 • New York, New York
                    12 Mar 14
                    Even me also in the same condition. Somehow both are perfect in their own position.
                     @sunilmishra7756 (4263)
 • Moradabad, India
                    16 Sep 13
                    If one thing is on earth is thousand times better than wife,it is mother. You can not be old  till your mother calls you by your name. You can find many wives in your life but you can not find one mother, if you search with many torches. Mother is the name of God. God made mothers because He could not be everywhere. The comaparison between a mother is meaningless.
                     @1481978 (12)
 • Kampala, Uganda
                    16 Sep 13
                    None is better because they each play very different roles. They are both good you can not compare them.
                    
                            
                        
                    



