A Girl and An Elder Man
By Joyce
@liangcuiyi (9)
Shenzhen, China
October 11, 2013 12:06pm CST
A girl 20 years old met an elder man who is already 36 by chance. However the girl was deep attracted to this man. His character, his gentle manner , his voice and even his smell can not move away from the girl's mind. This man help the girl a lot. He told the girl that what she should learn in the college with all details and said that he really want the girl could help him with his career after the girl graduate.
One day, the man hold the girl's hand and put it at his chest, said “Could you be my girlfriend?" The girl did not refuse him even she knew the man has a wife and a daughter( the man has told the girl that his family relation is not so good and they dont live together)
The girl still love the man who is elder than her 16 years and has family. Do you think her choice that be the man's back girlfriend is correct?
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3 responses
@sunilmishra7756 (4272)
• Moradabad, India
11 Oct 13
Attraction between a man and woman is very natural and spontaneous but we have brain in the uppermost part of the body. We must use it first and then come to some decision.
Thanks
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@liangcuiyi (9)
• Shenzhen, China
12 Oct 13
@sunilmishra7756 the girl may thanks for your sincere advice and she may take the decision more rationally.
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@johnnygreybeard (181)
• United States
11 Oct 13
To the point, the answer is no. Not if he is married. If he is divorced, my opinion changes slightly to "it is possible". Being a friend is acceptable to most people, but since there are already strong emotional feelings, I would advise to keep it very distant, and let it come to an end.
Sometimes people will lead others on just to have them when they want them. This is ok for single people that have friends, and more maybe. A married man should fulfill his obligation to his wife, or divorce before pursuing other companions.
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@liangcuiyi (9)
• Shenzhen, China
12 Oct 13
@johnnygreybeard You make the girl know that responsibility to a man is quite important. And the distance may create a more suitable communication way between the girl and the man.
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@liangcuiyi (9)
• Shenzhen, China
14 Oct 13
@narsha Thanks for your sincere advice. And I hope that he give me the true love. I just feel comfortable ,free and safe to stay with him, However my sense told me that he can not go to an end with me.
