I need your opinion

Cleveland, Ohio
October 30, 2013 2:46am CST
I communicated with a guy in the internet dating site. We communicated for one and half month on the site. Of course, I was not very interested in him whenever we talk at the site. I can tell he really likes me and would send me messages almost every other day. He was very polite and nice whenever we talked on the site. My husband died last year and I get lonely sometimes and would communicate with this guy casually on the net. One day when I was doing my garage sale my neighbor who's is a 53 y.o. guy came to me and ask me for a dinner date and I said yes. We went out for a dinner date and Play pool after the dinner. I did enjoy the night with my dinner date. The following day I was waiting for him to call me and to tell me that he did enjoy the dinner with me. He never call me the following day. Therefore, I emailed the internet guy and told him that my dinner date did not enjoy the night, because he never did call me back to let me know that he did enjoy the night. The internet guy responded and said "why not look at me I am interested in you." The internet guy said that he would send me a round trip ticket for the weekend just to see me and see if we match. Because of my frustration with my neighbor for not contacting me after a wonderful night with him, I decided to go to Texas and see this internet guy for a 4 day week end. It turns out the best decision I ever made in my life. The internet guy and I match in everything, from sex, to exercising, to eating healthy, movies, dancing, etc..., I came back from Texas and I know I left my heart in Texas. In short we both fell in love!! Now He is 61 y.o.and I am 58 y.o.The question is,he is asking me to move in with him permanently. We discuss the Dos and Don'ts and splitting of expenses, everything was discuss from laundry, to cleaning and cooking etc..., I have to sell my house before I can move in with him. Question! Is it too early to move, in with this man?? He claimed that he is getting old and he wants me right now. I am in love with this man. I like to move in with him. Am I making a big mistake or is it too early to move in. I need help! Take5jazz
1 response
• Australia
30 Oct 13
That is so sweet, that you have so much in common, surprises are the best gifts in life and it sounds like it was a surprise that you and your texas man were so well matched. I think you should go for it, move in with him, you never know what life has in store for you, so you should make the most of what life has to offer. Why not rent your house out, until you are absolutely sure this relationship is what you want and then sell it but you should move in with him and see where it goes from there. Best of luck and love.