Adoption
By Little Miss
@LittleMissR (1)
Canada
August 8, 2015 6:17pm CST
On this day 8/8 1996 We / I got married...
Divorced 2005/6 - All amicable
Marriage is about love & much more...
but it's also about 2 people wanting
to do what's best for a innocent child ...
Especially when one of them is struggling with alcoholism & still is in some ways to this very day.
...Yup a sweet, loving, funny, soon to be 6 yr old little boy who is biologically mine but not biologically his..
To cut a long story short.....
we go to court, people ask questions, dig deeply into my past,
They want to know a name, he has to be found, apparently
to give his permission..NOT FOUND !!......much later...
ADOPTION goes through....
Any idiot can be a father...but it takes a real man to be a DAD...
A man who not only takes on his partners child as his own but then goes on to adopt him...
Thank you Andy for looking after us when nobody else did/would...
1 response
@dawnald (85130)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Aug 15
I suppose it's good they tried to find the bio father, but I bet it's really uncomfortable having your past dug into.