yelled at my daughter badly.

@amnabas (9906)
Karachi, Pakistan
October 5, 2015 1:15pm CST
Today in the near dinner time my elder one insisted to have some snacks like chips and juices etched .I am too against of snacks at the time of dinner .in my opinion no snacks intake when it's about to dinner.I yelled on her badly and she started screaming and crying.but I didn't,t noticed her and left her on her annoying condition rather than fulfilling her demand.
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@sharon6345 (121671)
• United States
6 Oct 15
You did what you saw fit to keep her from having the snacks. maybe next time move them away from her eye sight and she might not want anything.
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@amnabas (9906)
• Karachi, Pakistan
6 Oct 15
As she is grown up and is ten years she wanted to buy those packs from nearby shop which I declined.
@Carol2015 (136)
• Zhengzhou, China
6 Oct 15
It's helpless to yell at children. You can ask her to eat it after dinner, or, I don't know how old she is, but maybe you can just establish a three-point rule between you and your children. For example: No snacks when having dinner; A reward if not crying in 3 hours or more hours. rules like that. I think it's effective. We'd better not always say to them with those don'ts or can'ts. You write this post, proving that you know that yelling at children is not right and useful. Just calm down and try some other means.
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@amnabas (9906)
• Karachi, Pakistan
6 Oct 15
Yes you are right but i bever ever scold my daughter but yesterday she was crying like hell and i decided to calm her down by peaceful means but then what i did was infront of you.
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• Zhengzhou, China
6 Oct 15
@amnabas I can understand, and you are a kind father. You felt guilty after yelling at your daughter. People occasionally will lose their temper, but we should make our best to control our bad feelings in front of children. Just try to comfort her and apologize to her while teaching her.
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@amnabas (9906)
• Karachi, Pakistan
6 Oct 15
@Carol2015 I am her mother and i will try to control my anger from now on.
@jstory07 (66085)
• Roseburg, Oregon
7 Oct 15
Sometimes children have to hear the word NO and there is nothing wrong with that word. She will get over it.
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@amnabas (9906)
• Karachi, Pakistan
7 Oct 15
Yes @jstory that's the truth