She Added my Man
By Cris Bernal
@Cdjran2015 (273)
Manila, Philippines
October 17, 2015 9:44am CST
My man told me this night that my friend Eva added him. To check his words, i came online and see his friends list and I saw that she is our mutual friend. I called him and ask of who sent the friend request? he is not good at internet and don't even know if he adds her or not. He don't come online always nor search people to add.
I posted something on my FB wall. I said :
If your friend added your man friend without telling you, what is the first thing you will think? As for me, I never add my friends's friend. If i do, Ill ask my friend first before I add him. Just wondering the reason?
Then automatically or without thinking anything, she posted her comment under it. She said:
Cheating and flirting.......sis just let go ok no need to stay with the wrong person..........you deserve the best.
Then I replied to her: Do you think so sis? then tell me, are you the one who requested him to add you or him?
She replied again before she reads the above comment.
MARAMING TAO WALA RESPETO DAHIL WALA SILANG RESPETO SA SARILI NILA....ONLY EDUCATED PEOPLE KNOWS HOW TO ACT AND BEHAVE WELL ( You know there are many people who has no respect to themselves.)
IF YOU HAVE THAT KIND OF FRIEND WELL LEAVE HER YOU DONT NEED BAD PEOPLE LIKE THEM IN YOUR LIFE...(Nice advise and I was laughing when she sent me this comment there.)
I said: Ok, would you like me to follow your advise?If you can see our mutual friend, then you can understand. I want to know the truth. Don't tell me that you have no time for we are counting our friendship here. Are you avoiding the topic or what? Try me how can I understand it. He told me a while ago about you. I never think that it will happen so I go to his profile and you are there in his friends' list. I am just asking who ask the request? He said, he don.t. So are you the one? yeah, you dont chat cos he dont chat more. Even to me, He never chat on Fb.
In between my long reply, she still replying me saying I must not include there but I asked her to see our mutual friends so she knew what I am saying but she told me she has no time for this and dont want stress in her life. So what is her motive? To flirt to him and to cheat me?
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4 responses
@GardenGerty (157671)
• United States
17 Oct 15
Maybe she wants to cause trouble so that he becomes available and she can scoop him up.
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@Cdjran2015 (273)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Oct 15
If my man grab that opportunity then both of them failed. I will just separate to them. People who are not honest and loyal to me, I will not give another chance for them. This is the last chance. But i think my man don;t want to lose me again so he told me. Anyway he told me anything that happen to him since he came to this country.
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@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Oct 15
I dont think she is meant to flirt with him. If so she could have done it in private. Dont doubt your lover. It can make problems in future to you.
@Cdjran2015 (273)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Oct 15
I don't doubt on him. I doubt on her because were friends since 2009 and all her problems I was there. I never turn my back and sometimes she even asked me to do things I should not be done so that she can secure a man's love to her. Maybe knowing how good he is to me that she wants to sneak and grab his attention. But if he do, then he failed me. I don;t care. Everything in life is a test and she failed but my man dont/ But time is not yet finish,
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@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
17 Oct 15
@Cdjran2015 Yeah. give some time. If he really likes you then he wont get deviated by such thing.
@Cdjran2015 (273)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Oct 15
@rahulvsmokiee he is the one who told me that my bestfriend added him this afternoon. You know what, the first time they see each other, when his friend I match with her, she talked to his friend but her eyes is with him. I saw it and he too so he asked me to go out and leave them there.
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@LeaPea2417 (36514)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Nov 15
She wants to cause trouble. You need to sever ties with her.
@Freelanzer (10744)
• Canada
17 Oct 15
We always tend to blame the woman but the man is just as guilty or even more so. It doesn't matter who started it, he doesn't have to respond or get involved.
@Cdjran2015 (273)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Oct 15
@Freelanzer... my man told me that she added him. he don;t add her because he hated her the first time he saw her. Last month, we went to see her with his friend. We match his friend to her but when we are all there, she talked and see him and I saw it. So, we get out of the mall and we are laughing because she was looking at her. Before we went to see her, i already show his friend's pic to her so I knew she already knew the man that she is about to date that day.
I want to correct you, I don;t blame her. I asked her on FB who add? But she denied it and cant even tell me the truth. She just stop talking to me.
If she asked me to add him, I can let her. A respect is needed in friendship. He is a man and if he commit anything to her then i should know it too. If he do then he failed me. but she done it without asking me, so what is the motive?
