what if you were infertile?
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
October 19, 2015 1:36pm CST
it's too soon for me to have kids now but at some point in my life I dream about becoming a mother. anyway I did some medical checking today and it indicates that I might be infertile. not being able to have kids would be a terrible pain in my heart
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
20 Oct 15
I have never known of anyone undergoing tests before one is married.
@allknowing (130292)
• India
20 Oct 15
@swissheart A routine check normally does not include a fertility check as per my knowledge.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
20 Oct 15
@allknowing I was detected with an ab-normal level on one of the hormones( which indicates infertility usually). I also have a previous right ovary removing surgery. this is why they suspect me of infertility
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
20 Oct 15
I'm not getting married. it's just that on a routine check I discovered this issue
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
20 Oct 15
I don't want to go trough such a procedure. like I said if someone determined I was infertile I would probably chose to adopt a child
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@JustEm (23)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
19 Oct 15
Luckily, I had one child who is 17 now, but I have been told (after 3 miscarriages) that I cant have any more children.. It truly hurts when I see mothers that are too young giving birth and not looking after their children. I would truly give anything to be able to bore children again, but what will be will be.. I had to get used to that saying to keep me sane.
I truly feel for you if you are deemed infertile, I do, to an extent, know how you feel.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
20 Oct 15
I know for sure right now that it will be hard for me to have kids but facing the opportunity of not being able at all...brings pain to my heart
@Missmwngi (12926)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Oct 15
I just hope the results don't show such because it can be disappointing. It is so amazing to have your own kids and i would not want to see any lady miss such an opportunity
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
20 Oct 15
yes missing the opportunity to become a mother is a terrible pain. plus it depends who you're with because not any man would denny himself the opportunity of becoming a parent just because he wants to be with you
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@Missmwngi (12926)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Oct 15
@swissheart Oooh yeah. There are few men who would be so understanding but we are human and one can understand them
