Love In An Elevator??

Minneapolis, Minnesota
November 18, 2015 8:51am CST
Standing in a elevator with someone is the most awkward thing. Why is it when you enter a elevator either full of people or just one other person that everyone looks down at the floor? No one dares to look up at you or at anyone else, why is that? I have tried to break the cycle by looking at the people I am in the elevator with and they either give me an awkward glance or they continue to look down at the floor as if it were a TV show the didn't want to miss a single part.. lol
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• United States
18 Nov 15
I know exactly what you mean about looking at the floor - and I love the photo you have put with this!
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• United States
23 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 Yep, I thought this would have been about some time that you got caught doing what is talked about in the song. I was afraid I would have to confess to something I wanted to keep private.
• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
I know right? I like Aerosmith so I figured it would be appropriate since I used the title of one of their songs :-)
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
23 Nov 15
@TimBurWrites Haha that is pretty funny. I actually am surprised I didn't get a confession or two on here. Let me tell you I have always wanted to try that for sure :-)
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@moffittjc (118814)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Nov 15
You should find a way to have fun on the elevator. Like when you first get on, and as soon as the door closes, look at everyone and say, "Now that I have your attention, let me tell you..." and then start talking about something completely off the wall. Or, as soon as the door opens when you reach your floor, and as your stepping out of the elevator, wave your hand back and forth in front of your nose and say "Wow, I'm glad I don't have to smell that anymore! Someone needs to check their underwear!" and then walk away!
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@moffittjc (118814)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 Love your reference to Aerosmith in your title! I'm a big Aerosmith fan!
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
@moffittjc I do enjoy a little Aerosmith in my day. I was in Orlando and I stayed at the Hard Rock hotel and they had some cool stuff in there from Aerosmith
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
Hahahaha that is an awesome idea, maybe one of these days I will find the right set of people to try that on
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@ison_1 (1240)
19 Nov 15
I got stuck in an elevator once (we call them lifts over here) and I ended up sharing my lunch with a stranger.
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@ison_1 (1240)
19 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 Over here is England. It was in an office building, coming back from buying my lunch. We got stuck between the third and fourth floors. We were stuck for over an hour and I was hungry. The lady with me had no food so I offered to share and we sat on the floor and had a picnic
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
@ison_1 Awe isn't that sweet!!! I would of gone mad if I ever got stuck in an elevator. I don't do well in enclosed spaces and especially ig there is no way out.
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
Thats pretty rare, how did that happen? Where is over here ?
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@gudheart (12659)
18 Nov 15
That is why I don't like taking them! Creepy
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
18 Nov 15
You can't catch someone's eye in an elevator! It's just not in the rules! You'll be expecting to talk to people next! Are you mad??
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
Hahaha I must be mad, I just think it is so uncomfortable to have to walk into an elevator and everyone is looking down and no one will look at you. Its the longest 10 seconds of my life
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
19 Nov 15
@BethieAnnie Maybe I should try that. It would be good to film the reactions. I had this idea to put a very realistic picture of an elevator shaft (viewed from above) on an elevator floor. Cover it over with a false sliding floor then slowly start to slide the false floor back as the elevator goes up. Cue panic!!!
• Dayton, Ohio
19 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 I talk to people in elevators sometimes. Like just tell a random joke. Most people will be running from the elevator by the time you reach your destination.
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@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
18 Nov 15
it is said that "When in Rome, do as the Romans do"
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
I refuse to conform from now on I will look up in the elevator and at as many people as possible :-)
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
19 Nov 15
They are all a bunch of strangers. How else do you expect them to behave
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
Like animals :-)
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
18 Nov 15
I really like the picture you chose. Yes it is awkward on a elevator unless it is a glass one where you can look at the people below and around. Try saying, "have you every been in one that got stuck" for interesting reactions?
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
18 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 Elevators are notorious for silence, along with city buses. The ride of the unknowns.
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
Thanks, I really like it to. I have never seen this album cover which is odd. I might have to come up with something witty to say to maybe break that awkward silence ;-)
• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
@Bluedoll I don't understand why there is such silence on city buses. Most of the population makes them selves so unapproachable. Just smile life is short meet as many people as you can
@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
19 Nov 15
lol well if it was me I would have smiled at you and maybe even spoke, my husband says I talk to everyone I meet.
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
To bad I don't run into people like you more often. Since posting this I now smile when I am in the elevator form all the comments I have received from this
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• United States
18 Nov 15
You are so right....people do glance at the floor now that you mention it
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
I know I find it funny now that I am thinking about it.
• Lucknow, India
19 Nov 15
Well, guys mostly feel awkward looing at a beautiful girl in an elevator!! Cuz you can easily catch the guys staring !!! LOL
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• Lucknow, India
19 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 Start looking at sudden intervals.. U will!!
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
@Rationalwriter I have since posting this, I have had more of a bigger smile on my face now when I step into an elevator
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
I haven't caught anyone staring yet lol
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• United States
23 Nov 15
I'm guilty of looking down at the floor in elevators. It's because I'm shy.
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• United States
24 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 I'd die probably... I don't want to think about that. :(
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
23 Nov 15
What happens if you were to look up and someome caught you lookinng?
• Minneapolis, Minnesota
24 Nov 15
@TimBurWrites Oh its good fun :-)
@Robert57 (71)
• Adrian, Missouri
19 Nov 15
In my opinion, people are uncomfortable with eye contact with strangers. This said, Make it anonymous with sunglasses then try again.
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
Hahaha thats good, will have to try that as well :-)
• Valencia, Spain
19 Nov 15
I guess it has to do with personal space or something along that line. Something primal. Closed in space, feeling trapped together with someone you don't no. Personally I always take the stairs if pos.
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
19 Nov 15
I want to change that, I know most people int he world today are a threat but not all are bad right?
@suzzy3 (8342)
21 Nov 15
I always pass the time of day and normally get them talking.
• Minneapolis, Minnesota
22 Nov 15
Lol how do you manage that
@jstory07 (135135)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Nov 15
I do not go into elevators I have a fear of enclosed spaces.
@antonbunot (11092)
• Calgary, Alberta
18 Nov 15
@Castlerock34 O, you just hate the variety of different smells!
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
I am very claustrophobic as well, so when the elevator is packed to the gills I avoid it at all costs.
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• Minneapolis, Minnesota
18 Nov 15
@antonbunot Uhm YES! I always think to myself I hope they don't think I did it. Theres also times where I did do it right before I had to get off and I would leave the elevator chuckling ;-)
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@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Nov 15
heheheh, I think the closeness of the bodies deter a glance at the riders or others pray so the elevator won't stuck up hehehe..
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
19 Nov 15
Used to have an eye to eyr with the floor too
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
19 Nov 15
I don't know why people seem to be so unconformable in an elevator but I have noticed it myself. I love the photo. I am a huge Aerosmith fan.
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• Mumbai, India
19 Nov 15
It is because people tend to guard themselves from external influences or threats. We have four parts of our psychological space. Intimate, personal, Social and public space. And in elevators our intimate space gets replaced by unkown people which is actually meant for close freinds or family. Even people tend to stand in corner more than at the center of elevators. Funny right?
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