what would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you

@ko31024 (492)
Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia
November 23, 2015 5:47pm CST
what would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you ? i would kill my girlfriend with the person who cheated with her if i really love her :) if i don't really love i would just leave her alone? what would you do?
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• Chennai, India
6 Dec 15
No point in killing them, just leave them and try to move on. I know its hurtful but in the end its the better decision and wait for true love to find you :) Good luck :)
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• Abuja, Nigeria
24 Nov 15
All I need to do is just to put an end to the relationship cause the love and commitment no longer exist
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
24 Nov 15
I would strongly recommend you address your anger and jealousy issues. And if you should ever murder your girlfriend, you have plenty of witnesses to the threat. If she cheats, she's not worth the bother.
@dorianna (509)
• United States
24 Nov 15
If you could kill the one you claimed to love, you now how the answer as to why she would have cheated in the first place. I get the impression, you are unsure of many things. !. Do I really love my girlfriend? 2. What would I do if my girlfriend cheated on me? The reason I say confused is because you state that if you loved her you would kill her, but the image you posted with that statement says you would forgive. If someone cheated on me I would first give consideration to a couple of things. How many times had it happened? Are they remorseful? Did they tell me or wait until they were caught? Everyone is human. There are times one may be in a situation of loneliness or another may put seductive pressure on your love interest and the he/she gives in to temptation. The behavior is wrong but if it is the first time and my boyfriend was honest and told me about it, I might forgive one indiscretion. If it was an affair I would simply terminate the relationship. An affair isn't an act of giving into a temptation. It requires deliberate deception and forethought. To be capable of an affair negates the value of the relationship. It is indicative of character. I would recognize that my place in the relationship was not honored and respected. Time to close the door.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Nov 15
i am agree with you,love is what we want to see our partner happy and keep them happy till life,if you really and truly love her then they not do this kind of act.he saying if her girlfriend cheat her then kill because he love so much but its not love its deal or selfishness that if not get then no one get her.i like one girl but she like other man while in collage and when she said me i accept it but at that she not know it that i like her,so i am happy now because she is happy with his man and which i want to see.later she know that i feel for her then why not tell me,that time i said i am just fear that if i loose you that for and then give me hug and said you the girl will marry should be very lucky.
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@dorianna (509)
• United States
24 Nov 15
@birjudanak you are so right. When we love someone we want them to be happy even if it is not with ourself. Love is also sacrifice. I understand that he would be very hurt, but to kill would be pride not love. As you say it would be selfishness.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Nov 15
@dorianna and i am sure if he kill her and when she not with him at that time realized that what a big mistake he done and now just spend time alone whole life and in pain of love which kill by himself.
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• Chennai, India
29 Nov 15
Seriously why would you think of killing the person you love? Thats not called love in my opinion. If you really love her, you would think the good of her and not something which would give you like the murderous happiness (ignore that English). There are 2 options dude: -- Either you try to resolve everything with her and make her understand what she did was wrong. -- Or you can just breakup and live your own lives! The first option sure is not expected. So yea. Choose your different paths and "live" your life!
• Gillette, Wyoming
5 Dec 15
I think I would just leave. I don't think at that point they wouldn't be worth anymore of my time or effort.
@Freelanzer (10744)
• Canada
23 Nov 15
Are you a violent person or a criminal? Have you killed in the past? Is killing your girlfriend acceptable behavior in your country?Just wondering why you would say you would kill anyone on a public forum like this.
@Missmwngi (12926)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Nov 15
Try to forgive but leave as well
@Allamanda (154)
• Vietnam
24 Nov 15
The picture you posted here can explain my respond. If I can see that it is an honest mistake and he will never do that again I can forgive him for good. If not I'll walk away. Cheating is something I'm extremely sensitive to. I feel heartbroken already imagining that scenario. Silly me.