how to handle negative people? / myLot

Tiruchirappalli, India

December 9, 2015 7:32am CST

still i dont know how to handle perssimist in my life...i dont like people talking negatively when i ready to start a work and the work getting spoiled...

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M.-L.

@MALUSE (69409)

• Germany

9 Dec 15

You can't change them. So avoid them.

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praghalya

@awesomeuser (38)

• Tiruchirappalli, India

9 Dec 15

its very difficult to avoid when that type of people may be dad,mum or relative..

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Aravind Kannan

@smoneyshoney (108)

• Chennai, India

10 Dec 15

@awesomeuser Don't worry . Everyone including your parents will understand when u succeed in it :) All will bow, accept and agree when we succeed:) Well dad and mom are ok, but some of my relatives irk me too at times:) Mostly comparison is the main reason

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praghalya

@awesomeuser (38)

• Tiruchirappalli, India

10 Dec 15

@smoneyshoney yes i hate comparison

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Lee Ka

@kaka135 (14916)

• Malaysia

11 Dec 15

When you can't avoid, perhaps you just have to learn not to let them affect you. I have tried years to change how my mom thinks, I hope she can be more positive, but it seems like it's really difficult to change some people, unless they are willing to change. So, I have learned to just listen (if I can't avoid) and smile, try not to say or explain much. If I have a chance to change topic, then I will just change the topic to something more interesting.

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Teep11

@Teep11 (7674)

• United States

9 Dec 15

There will be negative and difficult people to deal with. As time goes on. We learn how to deal with them better. Some we can avoid and others. We simply can not.

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